The Age of Profanity and the Blessings of Good Words
26 March, 2012
by Umm Reem Education, Family and Community, Featured, Integration and Interactions, Psychology, Society 11 comments
It was easier to enforce this standard of language when my children were homeschooled. However, as they have stepped into the “real” world, i.e. started school, and extended their circle of friends, they are becoming accustomed to hearing many of these words. Unfortunately, using swear words is very common at schools, and “slightly impolite” words are considered normal among Muslim and non-Muslim kids equally.
Domestic Violence: Why Women Endure?
12 March, 2012
by Umm Reem Domestic Violence Series, Education, Family and Community, Featured, Gender Relations, Injustice, Marriage, Society 32 comments
No matter what the reason may be, there is no excuse for enduring injustice. Unfortunately, in many cultures, there is so much negativity associated with seeking help through a third party and/or pursuing a divorce, that many women willingly endure domestic violence rather than protect their rights.
When Hijab becomes Cultural
Umm Reem reflects on hijab in a Muslim country, where she is an expat. “I don’t know how ḥijāb evolved into culture, but unfortunately it did. Even the welcoming package and little leaflets designed for expatriates introduce ḥijāb as a cultural dress code.”
Is Piety the only Beauty?
One day a sister dropped by to pick up something and saw me dressed up with make-up and jewelry, so she assumed I was going somewhere. When I told her
Verbal Abuse in Marriage: Words can Kill
Islam recognizes the evil of verbal abuse and perhaps that’s why there is so much emphasis on guarding one’s tongue and keeping others secured from its invisible harm. The Messenger of Allah, ṣallallāhu ‘alayhi wa sallam, said, “A true believer is not involved in taunting, or frequently cursing (others) or in indecency or abusing.” (al-Tirmidhi)
If this is the right of a regular Muslim, then how much more so a wife or husband is entitled to be safe from verbal abuse and taunting.
Polygamy: Rational or Irrational?
Must Read for men considering polygamy: I questioned one of the shayookh and his answer to my skeptical question still echoes in my ears; instead of defending or addressing the topic of polygamy, he surprisingly questioned me, ‘Do you believe Allah is Just?’
Teen Idols- Crushes, Love & Heartbreak | Parenting Series Final
In this last segment of the Parenting series, Umm Reem discusses the importance of communication with our children, how to handle preteen/teenage crushes, and provides some special advice to the parents of girls.
Sexual Activities Beyond The “Norm”: What Should We Teach Our Teens
Now let us proceed to additional topics that we should discuss with our pre/teens. Unfortunately, these topics are introduced to 10-year olds in public schools (as I mentioned in Part V(b)), hence the parents should be prepared to discuss these issues with the children at home.
Why Sex-Ed Should Be Given at Home and not in Public Schools
Those who are familiar with my works are quite aware that I have a deep belief in communication between parents and children. I have always emphasized that parents need to empower themselves with the tools necessary to teach their children about all sorts of topics, but especially one that is so sensitive and a cause of so many adulthood problems— sex.
Sex & Sexuality: An Islamic Perspective
Continuing from last week’s article, insha’Allah we will discuss the next two commonly asked questions: How do babies get into their mother’s stomachs? and What is Sex?
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