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How to Really Get Ready For The Month of Ramadan

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Many Muslims approach Ramadan with mixed feelings. On one hand they’ve heard how the Companions used to eagerly await Ramadan six months in advance. But on the other hand, they genuinely worry about the long hours of fasting (in hot weather in some cases) while they have to work.  Such feelings of anxiety are sometimes accompanied with a sense of guilt that we’re not eagerly anticipating the month, like the Companions used to.  The question then becomes, is there anything we can do to lessen this pre-Ramadan anxiety, and hence be better prepared for the Month of Fasting?

To help answer this question, let me bring to your attention what I believe is a key verse in this regard. Allah says about the prayer:

وإنها لكبيرة إلا على الخاشعين

“And indeed it’s big except on the people of khushoo'” [Quran:2:45]

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At first, you might be saying, well, what’s this to do with fasting?  But let’s do some examination. In essence, God is saying that the prayer is hard and difficult, except on people who possess certain qualities. The difficulty in the prayer lies in the fact that we have to perform it five times a day, every single day of our lives. Therefore, it requires a lot of persistence. Likewise, fasting is hard and difficult. But its difficulty lies in the fact that we deprive ourselves from essential pleasures which we take for granted and we incur a certain amount of pain on our bodies— the pain of hunger and thirst. Therefore, it requires a lot of endurance. But whether it’s the challenge of persistence or endurance, Allah forewarns us that it will be difficult if we only focus on the physical aspect of worship. Indeed, when you tell non-Muslims how Muslims fast from dawn to sunset (now an average of 16 hours for many people on Earth), their heads will shake in disbelief.

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The Role of Faith in Fasting

The word khushoo’ mentioned in the verse above is a combination of many things. But one essential component of khushoo’ is faith or Eemaan. It’s not a surprise then that the Prophet made faith a precondition for fasting to be effective. In the authentic hadith,

من صام رمضان إيمانا واحتسابا غفر له ما تقدم من ذنبه

“Whoever fasts Ramadan out of faith while expecting its reward, then all his previous sins will be forgiven” [Bukhari and Muslim].

In other words, you treat fasting as a true and complete act of worship. We don’t do it out of habit, or because our family or our environment expects us to, but because we worship Allah through this act. If we break it down further, worship is made out of our pure love and utter submission. If we were to apply that to fasting, it means we fast out of pure love for Allah and out of utter submission to His command.

So when you’re about to fast this time, remember the various bounties that Allah has bestowed you with.  Remember the variety of food you have and the availability of cold water.  Remember the roof over your head and the decent job you’ve got.  Remember all the special bounties that are unique to your and your surroundings.  Then say, I’m fasting out of gratitude to this Lord who has given me all this.  Every time you feel the pain of fasting, remind yourself that you’re doing it out of love for the Creator, who is the reason for everything you enjoy in this life.  In other times, remember that fasting is an ultimate show of utter submission to a command that may not seem very comfortable to follow.  You may choose to alternate between the feeling of love and the feeling of submission.

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Forgiveness of Sins

Some people might ask: “Why do I need to fast Ramadan in order to get my sins forgiven?”  Can’t I do it the easier way, through Istighfar (seeking forgiveness) and other good deeds?  The answer is, there will be some types of sins that only Ramadan can help you rid yourself from.  In fact, Ramadan is the ultimate way of getting sins forgiven when all others fail.  Consider this hadith of the Prophet ṣallallāhu 'alayhi wa sallam (peace and blessings of Allāh be upon him):

“The five daily prayers, Friday to Friday, and Ramadan to Ramadan, will forgive the sins in-between as long as major sins are avoided” [Sahih Muslim].

It’s clear that we have daily, weekly, and yearly opportunities for forgiveness.  You may call Ramadan the “yearly cleansing“.  This is why in a different hadith, the Prophet ṣallallāhu 'alayhi wa sallam (peace and blessings of Allāh be upon him) described the one who was able to attend Ramadan yet failed to get his/her sins forgiven as someone who is far [from the Mercy of Allah].  In other words, the only way you don’t get your sins forgiven is if you totally forfeit this opportunity.

However, the question remains.  Are there some type of sins that only Ramadan can help forgive?

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 Getting Rid of Addictions and Changing Bad Habits

If we were to imagine that sins are like shackles that hold us down, then Ramadan is the tool to set us free.  I believe this is part of the reason the Sahaba used to have such eager anticipation.  Now, since Satan is largely immobilized, we are mostly talking about the sins that stem from the self.  Everyone has certain weaknesses that keep haunting them and inviting them to sin.  This is different from the method of Satan who is more sporadic and doesn’t really care what sin you commit, as long as you commit it.  But here, Ramadan offers more than just breaking away from sins.  It offers to break away from addictions and bad habits.

When we say addictions, some people think of only drugs and alcohol, but in reality, an addiction is much more than that.  In fact, an addiction doesn’t have to be related to something that is Haram.  For example, overeating is an addiction.  This is why obesity is a big problem in this country.  Now, Ramadan offers a great opportunity to break this bad habit.  But, you have to be ready and you have to use the tool of Ramadan properly.  Otherwise, we all know too well that some people end up gaining weight in the Month of Ramadan.  This is not to mention that food gets wasted in Ramadan more than any other month.  So, we clearly can see that Ramadan is only a tool and it’s up to us what we make of it.  Ramadan will not do miracles if we’re not ready or if we don’t use it properly.

Another addiction is oversleeping.  Yes, some people might sleep some 10 straight hours missing Fajr altogether and barely making it to work on time.  Again, Ramadan offers a golden opportunity to become the master of your sleep.  For the busy person in Ramadan, you know you can barely manage few hours of sleep in the row.  Yet, some people sleep through the whole day, missing Dhuhr and Asr, and not waking up till Iftar time at sunset.  Again, we see how Ramadan can be a tool that works for you or against you.  It’s all up to you.

Another form of addiction is watching TV.  For the serious worshiper, even one minute of TV is a waste of time.  Even if he/she used to watch TV outside of Ramadan, their time in Ramadan turns to reciting Quran, praying voluntary prayers, and making extra Du’a and Dhikr to mention a few.  Yet, how many new TV shows do we see introduced in Ramadan, especially in Muslim countries?  And no, they are not religious shows!  They are romantic soap operas, silly comedy and game shows.  Once more, we see how one can pretty much defeat the very purpose of Ramadan.  Instead of utilizing Ramadan to help us rid ourselves of a bad habit, now we’ve turned it up side down and made it a vehicle of sinning or at least watching other people sin.

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Make your Intentions Now

Along with making the intention to fast the whole month, please make the intention that this Ramadan will be like no other Ramadan.  I will fast this Ramadan out of faith.  I will do it for the love of Allah and out of full submission to His order.  I will set some goals for myself.  I want to rid myself of sins that may have plagued me for years.  I want to change some of my bad habits and break away from some old addictions.  I want to change my life this Ramadan.  I intend to make this Ramadan the best Ramadan ever.

Inshaa’Allah during Ramadan, I intend to post unique Du’as from the authentic Sunnah on my Facebook page.

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Born and raised in Lebanon, Hlayhel began attending study circles at his local mosque when he was ten. He came to the United States at 17 and studied electrical engineering at the University of Houston. At its MSA, he met Sh Yasir Qadhi and worked together to raise Islamic awareness on campus. Hlayhel studied traditional sciences of Aqeedah (Islamic creed), Fiqh (Islamic law) and Nahw (Arabic grammar) under Sh Waleed Basyouni and Sh Waleed Idriss Meneese among others. After settling in Phoenix AZ, he worked tirelessly, in the capacity of a board member then a chairman, to revive the then dead AZ chapter of CAIR in order to face the growing Islamophobia in that state and to address the resulting civil right violations. Today, he's considered the second founder of a strong CAIR-AZ. In addition, Hlayhel is a part-time imam at the Islamic Center of the Northeast Valley in Phoenix, husband and father of four. His current topics of interest include positive Islam, youth coaching, and countering Islamophobia.

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