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For many Muslims involved in da’wah work or Islamic studies, one of the biggest struggles they face is praise and fame from their communities and peers. It is the nature of humans to praise what they see of people, but we are taught in our Deen that too much praise can harm a person.

Once, the Prophet ṣallallāhu 'alayhi wa sallam (peace and blessings of Allāh be upon him) heard a man praising another, and he responded to him, “”May Allah ‘s Mercy be upon you! You have cut the neck of your friend.” [Bukhari]

My teacher used to say, “praise is poison”, because of how it can ruin a good intention into a corrupt one. When we are constantly praised, our weak souls begin to rely and covet this praise, so good deeds are then done solely to hear those words of praise. A person’s nafs may rely so much on this praise that they begin seeking it for what they did not do. Allah subḥānahu wa ta'āla (glorified and exalted be He) describes in the Qur’an:

لَا تَحْسَبَنَّ الَّذِينَ يَفْرَحُونَ بِمَا أَتَوا وَّيُحِبُّونَ أَن يُحْمَدُوا بِمَا لَمْ يَفْعَلُوا

“Think not that those who rejoice in what they have done, and love to be praised for what they have not done…” (3:188)

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The scholars and righteous of the past would find ways to keep this praise away from themselves and remind those around them to not over praise others. This is why we find many narrations where they humiliate or speak lowly of themselves – it is to keep their nafs in check.

This supplication was not taught to us by the Prophet ṣallallāhu 'alayhi wa sallam (peace and blessings of Allāh be upon him)), but it is one that his best friend, Abu Bakr raḍyAllāhu 'anhu (may Allāh be pleased with him) would make after being praised (some narrations state that it was a duaa of Ali raḍyAllāhu 'anhu (may Allāh be pleased with him).

It is reported that he would say,

اللهمَ اجْعَلْنِى خَيْرًا مِمَّا يَظُنُّونَ وَاغْفِرْ لِى مَا لَا يَعْلَمُونَ وَلَا تُؤَاخِذْنِى بِمَا يَقُولُون

Allahumma-ja’lni khayran mima yadhunoon wa-ghfir li ma la ya’lamoon wa la tu’akhidhni bi ma yaquloon.

O Allah, make me better than what they think of me, and forgive me for what they do not know about me, and do not take me to account for what they say about me.

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Selected Word Analysis

yadhunnundhann is supposition. Notice here that Abu Bakr (radi Allahu anhu) did not say, “ya’lamoon“, “what they know” but rather, what they THINK about me. He is showing us through the use of this word that what people think is not always true, and supposition can never equal actual knowledge.

tu’akhidhni aakhadha means to reproach or blame someone. It means to hold someone accountable for something. Abu Bakr raḍyAllāhu 'anhu (may Allāh be pleased with him) is asking that he not be held accountable for what is said about him, because it is not in his control.

Points of Benefit

  • Being praised is something that even giants struggle with. Abu Bakr (radi Allahu anhu) was the giant of this Ummah, the greatest man after the Prophets, yet he struggled with hearing the praise of others. Struggling with praise does not mean you are weak, rather it means you are human.
  • Be careful in overpraising others. Sometimes we praise people in an extravagant way, and this only hurts the person more. As the Prophet ṣallallāhu 'alayhi wa sallam (peace and blessings of Allāh be upon him) said, “you are cutting the neck of your brother”- you may think you are benefiting the person but it may only be hurting them more.
  • It is important to be balanced when praising others. The Prophet ṣallallāhu 'alayhi wa sallam (peace and blessings of Allāh be upon him) said, “If it is necessary for any of you to praise someone, then he should say: ‘I think! that he is so and-so‘, if he really thinks that he is such. Allah is the One Who will take his account (as He knows his reality), and none can sanctify anyone before Allah.” [Bukhari]
  • Once a man was praised by another, so he responded to him and asked him, “Have you seen me while I was angry, and found me forbearing?” The man who praised him said no. He then asked, “Have you traveled with me and saw that I had good character (during travels)?” He said no. Then he asked, “Have you found me trustworthy with regards to fulfilling the trusts?” He said no. The man concluded, “then it is not allowed for you to praise someone if you have not seen his behavior with regards to these situations.”
  • Make duaa for those who are faced with popularity, fame and praise. It is a great inner struggle for them.
  • Being praised for an action you did secretly for the sake of Allah is a good thing. It was said to Allah’s Messenger (may peace be upon him): What is your opinion about the person who has done good deeds and the people praise him? He said: It is glad tidings for a believer (which he has received in this world). [Saheeh Muslim] This is not the same as someone acting out of seeking praise or changing their deeds afterward for praise, but this when someone is praised for what they’ve already done such as people finding out they were feeding the poor or praying during the night.
  • If you are praised, then be careful not to let praise and self-admiration overcome you. Praise makes people content with their deeds so they do not worship or do good as much because they are happy with their situation.

Some sayings of the Salaf regarding praise/fame:

Al-Kuraybi said, “They used to prefer that a man hide his righteous deeds, (to the extent), that his wife or anyone else wouldn’t be aware of it. (Al-Siyar: 9/349)

Abu Hazim said, “Hide your good deeds more than you hide your bad deeds.” (Al-Musannaf: 7/195)

Al-Fudayl ibn ‘Iyad said, “Whosoever is saddened by loneliness and feels tranquil around the people, is not safe from riyaa.” (Al-Siyar: 8/436)

Sa’eed ibn Al-Haddad said, “Nothing hinders from the path of Allah like seeking praise and status.” (Al-Siyar: 14/214)

Sufyan ath-Thawri said, “Safety is that you don’t desire to be known.” (Al-Siyar: 7:257)

Bishr ibn al-Harith said, “The (person) that loves fame has not feared Allah. Don’t act in order to be mentioned, and hide your good deeds like you hide your bad ones.” (Al-Siyar: 10/476)

May Allah make us among the sincere ones and may He purify our hearts from seeking praise and being affected by it.

Find more supplications from this series here.

Amatullah is a student of the Qur'an and its language. She completed the 2007 Ta'leem program at Al-Huda Institute in Canada and studied Qur'an, Tajwid (science of recitation) and Arabic in Cairo. Through her writings, she hopes to share the practical guidance taught to us by Allah and His Messenger and how to make spirituality an active part of our lives. She has a Bachelors in Social Work and will be completing the Masters program in 2014 inshaAllah. Her experience includes working with immigrant seniors, refugee settlement and accessibility for people with disabilities.

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    Amman Abdul Adl

    April 26, 2011 at 12:25 AM

    I wish I knew all of this sooner (sigh…)

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      W

      April 26, 2011 at 1:22 AM

      It’s never too late iA!

      Jazakallah Khair for the reminder, I will try my best to memorize the Dua.

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      Abdullah

      April 27, 2011 at 11:15 PM

      asalamu alaykum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh :)

      There is another dua that may then apply too, also in fortress of the muslim, page 121 in one of the printings I have, when something you dislike happens say, or when you fail to achieve what you attempt to do:

      qadr’Allahi wa maashaa’a fa’3l: It is the Decree of Allah and He does whatever He wills [Muslim]

      also in the footnote it says the hadith: “The strong believer is better and more dear to Allah than the weak believer, and in each of them there is good. Be vigilant for what is to your benefit and seek the help of Allah and do not falter. But when you are striken by some setback, do not say: ‘If only I had done such and such,’ rather say: ‘It is the Decree of Allah and He does whatever He wills.’ For verily the saying ‘if’ (i.e. if only I had) begins the work of the Devil.” [Muslim 4/2052]

      Alhamdullilah in all situations.

      Asalamu Alaykum

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    S

    April 26, 2011 at 12:52 AM

    barak Allahu feeki. This supplication series is simply beautiful Subahan Allaah. jazaki Allahu khayran sister.
    I wrote down all of these on a piece of paper with their translation, those that aren’t in Hisnul Muslim, the pocket edition.

    From where I look at it, Beauty is that, this dua is applicable for both praise and dishonoring someone. Allahu ‘alam. Meaning if someone carries any ‘ghill’ about us in their heart and is exhibited by their (in)/actions we could ask Allah the same Dua and seek protection with Him. These seemingly impossible but towering examples of sahaba and the salaf , of keeping their hayaa with Allaah and not getting carried away with Praise needs to be cultivated. What better way to start except by ourselves.

    Remember someone threatening someone with deportation for reaching out with a direct proposal. What s/he needs to do is read this dua and keep quiet and pray for them. Some old lady of the town being regarded as the most pious of the lot, I was very concerned (and positively jealous) in a way, about her people thinking this way. mash Allaah. In a way she was politely advised to be very wary about it and read the same dua. On a similar note I feel many of Dua’t here, who are put in the celebrity status by the volunteers while praising their introductions before any of their speeches/lectures/classes should remind this dua sincerely.

    I remember seeing a YouTube video, it was an audio put as youtube video actually, where Shaykh Albani or Shaykh Ibn Baaz (may Allah have mercy on both) was praised in the begining of a speech and he read the same dua after weeping for the praise, albeit in different sequence, citing the reference of Siddiq Akbar who did the same for public praise. Subahan Allaah.

    No wonder so many miraculous works could be accomplished in this world if we simply don’t worry about the credit of it (I remember being guilty of it a few times. Astaghfirullah.). And here often people claim credit of the work they did not do. At work we are required to prove our worth, for maintaining jobs and year end appraisals. In a way, asking managers to praiseour work and give good ratings? How do we strike a balance?

    may Allah keep us and our families safe. and I ask Allah to not hold us accountable for what other people think/speak about and do to us. And forgive us and make us better. Ameen. Wassalamu Alaykum.

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    nayma kose

    April 26, 2011 at 5:58 AM

    May Allah make us among the sincere ones and may He purify our hearts from seeking praise and being affected by it.

    Jazak Allahu khairan for your article.

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    umm abdul ahad

    April 26, 2011 at 7:19 AM

    Baarak Allaahu feeki. Can you give the reference of this hadith/du’aa’?

    Jazaak Allaahu Khayr

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      Amatullah

      April 26, 2011 at 10:27 AM

      wa feeki barak Allah. It is narrated in al-Adab al-Mufrad that the Companions used to say this when they were praised, also in Musannaf ibn Abi Shaybah, and in another hadith collection “Jami’ al-Ahadith” it is connected to Abu Bakr radi Allahu anhu.

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        Amatullah

        October 20, 2012 at 7:02 PM

        Asalaamu’Alaykum Wa Rahmatullahi Wa Barakaatuhu:
        I had this question for a very long time, when praising someone, what should be said: BarakAllahu Feeki or Masha’Allah? and plz explain
        -JazakAllahu Khairan Wa Ahsanul Jazaa fid Daarain.

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    Reshma Khan

    April 26, 2011 at 7:29 AM

    Subhan Allah. It is a beautiful article and very well written.

    Jazakallah sister for sharing the dua. We all need it and inshallah will teach my children too.

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    DiscoMaulvi

    April 26, 2011 at 8:49 AM

    Jazak’Allah Khairin. Insha’Allah I will try my best to learn this dua.

    -Aly

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    S

    April 26, 2011 at 9:40 AM

    The audio is the wrong dua?

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      Amatullah

      April 26, 2011 at 10:10 AM

      Sorry about that, I fixed it now.

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        S

        April 27, 2011 at 12:52 PM

        Jazakillah khayra

        Quick question, when learning various adhkar from the sunnah, do we apply tajweed rules, i.e. ghunnah, idgham. As i noticed in the audio it was read without.

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          Amatullah

          April 27, 2011 at 1:24 PM

          No, tajweed rules is only for recitation of the Qur’an.

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            S

            April 27, 2011 at 1:37 PM

            Ok, is it wrong to read them with tajweed?

            I’m trying to think of ones that i know and whether i apply tajweed rules. I think i do.

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            Amatullah

            April 27, 2011 at 1:39 PM

            I don’t believe there is anything “wrong” with reading it with tajweed, but duaas are usually not read with them. Allahu a’lam.

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    Mariam E.

    April 26, 2011 at 10:52 AM

    Asalamu Alikum

    Wonderful post mashaAllah. May Allah reward you.

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    SabrunJameel

    April 26, 2011 at 11:49 AM

    Barakallhu fiki, I thnk this is a very needed reminder nowadays, with the soceity we live in …

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    Munadi Al Islam

    April 26, 2011 at 12:39 PM

    JazakALLAHu khairan

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    Shuaib Mansoori

    April 26, 2011 at 1:42 PM

    JazakiAllahu Khairan for the wonderful Sharh. May Allah increase you and your family in Khair and grant you the company of the Prophet SalAllahu Alayhi Wa Sallam.

    SubhanAllah Shaykh Al-Albani said this Du’a when he was being praised, and Alhamdulillah someone put it up on youtube. You will cry everytime you listen to this clip http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cFzTPHR3Ukk

    May Allah grant us humility and forgive our trespasses.

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    Abdullah

    April 26, 2011 at 2:10 PM

    Asalamu Alaykum

    Jazakum’Allahu Khayran Sister Amatullah.

    This dua, or at least a similar narration, can be found in Fortification of the Muslim, at least the Darussalam edition, in case others wanted it in a book in hand.

    Asalamu Alaykum

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    MX

    April 26, 2011 at 4:28 PM

    To everyone,

    You can benefit from these articles that touch upon fame, arrogance, riya and ways to protect oneself from it on Imam Suhaib Webb’s site
    http://www.suhaibwebb.com/islam-studies/showing-off-the-minor-shirk/
    http://www.suhaibwebb.com/personaldvlpt/character/different-forms-of-riya/

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    Umar

    April 26, 2011 at 8:29 PM

    I was searching for this topic months ago all around the Internet. This is an an eye opener…a revolutionary… I’ll limit the praise lol.

    No but seriously, I was searching for this information almost a year back and found nothing. So happy I found this as I had a question in my mind about the concept of praising and overpraising.
    Anyway thanks a lot. JazakAllah khair.

    Assalamu alaykum.

    Umar.

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    Rafasyeda

    April 26, 2011 at 11:33 PM

    Great reminder, mA. Definitely not talked about enough. Jazak Allah!

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    S

    April 27, 2011 at 7:11 AM

    اللهمَ اجْعَلْنِى خَيْرًا مِمَّا يَظُنُّونَ وَاغْفِرْ لِى مَا لَا يَعْلَمُونَ Allahumma Ameen. jazakiAllahKhayr!!

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    Sabeen Mansoori

    April 27, 2011 at 10:49 AM

    My teacher used to say, “praise is poison”, because of how it can ruin a good intention into a corrupt one

    JazakAllah Khair for a much needed reminder! The scariest thing is that a person whose intention has been corrupted continues to do apparently good deeds but will find nothing in his/her account on the Day of Judgment.
    May Allah(swt) grant us true humility and allow us to serve His deen with sincerity.

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    S

    April 28, 2011 at 2:26 AM

    اللهُمَّ فأَيُّمَا مُؤْمِنٍ سَبَبْتُهُ فَاجْعَلْ ذَلِكَ لهُ قُرْبةً إليكَ يَوْمَ القِيَامةِ – Correction. The Du’a if someone is ‘insulted’ is this.
    O Allaah, to any believer whom I have insulted, let that be cause to draw him/her near to You on the Day of Resurrection. Ameen

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    Sadaf Farooqi

    April 29, 2011 at 5:53 AM

    Lovely post, Amatullah!
    Jazakillahu khairan katheera.

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    Abez

    April 30, 2011 at 12:17 PM

    A good and humbling reminder, JazakAllahuKheiran!

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    Muhammad

    April 30, 2011 at 9:52 PM

    This is such a difficult topic:
    From Abu Hurayrah (r.a), who said, “I heard the Messenger of Allah say,

    ‘ Verily, the first to be judged on the Day of Resurrection will be a man who had died as a Martyr. He will be brought forward. Allah will remind him of the favours He had bestowed upon him and the man will acknowledge them.

    Then He will ask him: `What did you do to express gratitude for it?’

    The man will reply: `I fought for Your Cause till I was martyred.’

    Allah will say: `You have lied. You fought so that people might call you courageous; and they have done so.’

    Command will then be issued about him and he will be dragged on his face and thrown into Hell.

    Sometimes I think about the martyr mentioned in this narration. And I think to myself, surely when he was striving in the way of Allah, he must have thought to himself that he was doing what he was doing for Allah. This is why I find the topic of sincerity so difficult. I mean how do we truly know, that we’re doing what we’re doing exlusively for Allah?

    It has been related that a man was used to praying in the first row in the mosque. One day he was late for the prayer, so he prayed in the second row. Feeling embarrassment when people saw him in the second row, he realised that the pleasure and satisfaction of the heart that he used to gain from praying in the first row were due to his seeing people seeing him there and admiring him for it. This is a subtle and intangible condition and actions are rarely safe from it. Apart from those whom Allah has assisted, few are aware of such delicate matters. Those who do not realise it only come to see their good deeds appearing as bad ones on the Day of Resurrection; they are the ones referred to in Allah’s words:

    “And something will come to them from Allah which they had never anticipated, for the evil of their deeds will become apparent to them. (39:47-48)”

    And also: “Say: Shall We tell you who will lose most in respect of their deeds? Those whose efforts were astray in the life of this world, while they thought that they were doing good works. (18:103-104)”

    This topic is enough to drive a man crazy. What if you’re not sincere, but you don’t even know it? And you only find out on the day of judgement when there’s no opportunity to do anything about it. Sometimes I think it’s better not to do a good deed than to do one. Because if you don’t do it, at least there’s no chance that you’re showing off.

    May Allah purify our hearts, and make us of those who are sincere! Aameen

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    Hotaru

    May 9, 2011 at 4:32 PM

    good article Alhamudillah.

    This article should definitely be read by all because the people who are not hafiz or ullama tend to be extravagant in their praise of people who are these.

    Like-wise, people with religous standings are also prone to start desiring this praise and this could affect how they treat others.

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    Ruth Nasrullah

    May 11, 2011 at 9:05 PM

    Subhanallah. Thank you so much for this post. It’s something I struggle with all the time.

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    sara

    May 29, 2011 at 2:06 PM

    jazakillahu khairan wa barak Allahu feeki!

    Just for clarification, we are supposed to say this in the presence of the one who has praised us, correct?

    shukran jazeelan

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      Amatullah

      June 9, 2011 at 7:16 PM

      wa iyyaki wa feeki barak Allah,

      I don’t know, Allahu a’lam. InshaAllah you can say it privately or openly…

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    O H

    October 11, 2013 at 1:17 AM

    I recommend everyone to see the beautiful and emotional response by al mujaddid, the late Shaykh al Albaanee when being praised in a gathering. He responded the same way as Abu Bakr As Siddeeq responded when he was praised: A short video

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1WxGBK7ToJY.

    The other personal tip I can share with others is one of my favourite duas below taken from http://islamqa.info/en/6356

    “If a person feels self admiration after doing something good or fears that he may show off, he should ward that off and resist it by seeking refuge with Allaah from it, and saying “Allaahumma inni a’oodhu bika an ushrika bika wa ana a’lam, wa’staghfiruka lima laa a’lam (O Allaah, I seek refuge with you from knowingly associating anything with You, and I seek Your forgiveness for that of which I am unaware)” – as was reported from the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him).”

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    Shumaysa AHF

    April 16, 2014 at 6:56 AM

    Masha Allah beautiful article…jazak Allahu khair katheer.

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    Aastha Sharma

    July 3, 2015 at 9:10 AM

    Dua for love between lovers, this dua is very useful if there are any issues and complications in between you and your lover. If there is no any solution then this dua is a last solution that can solve out your issues vary easily, because it is the only way you can solve out your issues.

    http://www.quranic786.com/dua-for-love-between-lovers/

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    Azhar

    July 17, 2016 at 2:06 PM

    As the topic is on praise….

    please do post some words of praise for Allah with their meaning… I loved to learn and pray it

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    Muhammad BASHIR

    September 25, 2016 at 3:40 AM

    Barakallaahu Fiykum…

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5 Duas For Ramadan Therapy | Sh Yahya Ibrahim

Use these precious days and night to ask Allah in the best of ways

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Dua 01 – #RamadanTherapy – The Magnificence of Ayat ul Kursi and its Power with Yahya Ibrahim

 

Allahu laaa ilaaha illaa huwal haiyul qai-yoom; laa taakhuzuhoo sinatunw wa laa nawm; lahoo maa fissamaawaati wa maa fil ard; man zallazee yashfa’u indahooo illaa be iznih; ya’lamu maa baina aideehim wa maa khalfahum; wa laa yuheetoona beshai ‘immin ‘ilmihee illa be maa shaaaa; wasi’a kursiyyuhus samaa waati wal arda wa la ya’ooduho hifzuhumaa; wa huwal aliyyul ‘azeem

“Allah! There is no god but He – the Living, The Self-subsisting, Eternal. No slumber can seize Him Nor Sleep. His are all things In the heavens and on earth. Who is there can intercede In His presence except As he permitted? He knoweth What (appeareth to His creatures As) Before or After or Behind them. Nor shall they compass Aught of his knowledge Except as He willeth. His throne doth extend Over the heavens And on earth, and He feeleth No fatigue in guarding And preserving them, For He is the Most High. The Supreme (in glory).”

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The Messenger has believed in what was revealed to him from his Lord, and [so have] the believers. All of them have believed in Allah and His angels and His books and His messengers, [saying], “We make no distinction between any of His messengers.” And they say, “We hear and we obey. [We seek] Your forgiveness, our Lord, and to You is the [final] destination.”

Allah burdens not a person beyond his scope. He gets reward for that (good) which he has earned, and he is punished for that (evil) which he has earned. “Our Lord! Punish us not if we forget or fall into error, our Lord! Lay not on us a burden like that which You did lay on those before us (Jews and Christians); our Lord! Put not on us a burden greater than we have strength to bear. Pardon us and grant us Forgiveness. Have mercy on us. You are our Maulâ (Patron, Supporter, and Protector) and give us victory over the disbelieving people.” (Al-Baqarah 2:286)

Dua 03 Salawat & Durood upon our Nabi ﷺ help us in all hardships & circumstances

Allahumma salli `ala Muhammadin, wa `ala aali Muhammadin, kama sallaita `ala aali Ibrahima, innaka Hamidum Majid. Allahumma barik `ala Muhammadin, wa `ala aali Muhammadin, kama barakta `ala aali Ibrahima, innaka Hamidum Majid
[O Allah, exalt the mention of Muhammad and the family of Muhammad as you exalted the family of Ibrahim. You are Praised and Glorious. O Allah, bless Muhammad and the family of Muhammad as You blessed the family of Ibrahim. You are Praised and Glorious.]”’ [Al-Bukhari and Muslim]

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Dua 04 The Greatest #Dua of Seeking Forgiveness

اللَّهُمَّ أَنْتَ رَبِّي لا إِلَهَ إِلا أَنْتَ خَلَقْتَنِي وَأَنَا عَبْدُكَ وَأَنَا عَلَى عَهْدِكَ وَوَعْدِكَمَا اسْتَطَعْتُ أَعُوذُ بِكَ مِنْ شَرِّ مَا صَنَعْتُ أَبُوءُ لَكَ بِنِعْمَتِكَ عَلَيَّ وَأَبُوءُ لَكَ بِذَنْبِي فَاغْفِرْ لِي فَإِنَّهُ لا يَغْفِرُ الذُّنُوبَ إِلا أَنْتَ 

“The Prophet (salAllahu alayhi wasalam) used this particular expression – Sayyid al-Istighfar – literally, ‘the master of supplications’ to indicate that this is the best of supplications for those in need, and which will fulfil the need—sincere seeking of forgiveness”>Allahumma anta Rabbi la ilaha illa anta, Anta Khalaqtani wa ana abduka, wa ana ‘ala ahdika wa wa’dika mastata’tu, A’udhu bika min Sharri ma sana’tu, abu’u Laka bini’matika ‘alaiya, wa Abu Laka bidhanbi faghfirli innahu la yaghfiru adhdhunuba illa anta

O Allah! You are my Lord! None has the right to be worshipped but You. You created me and I am Your slave, and I am faithful to my covenant and my promise as much as I can. I seek refuge with You from all the evil I have done. I acknowledge before You all the blessings You have bestowed upon me, and I confess to You all my sins. So I entreat You to forgive my sins, for nobody can forgive sins except You.)

Shaddad ibn Aws raḍyAllāhu 'anhu (may Allāh be pleased with him) relates that the Prophet ṣallallāhu 'alayhi wa sallam (peace and blessings of Allāh be upon him) said that he (Sayyid al-Istighfar) most superior way of asking for forgiveness from Allah is to say (the above du’a). That “If somebody recites it during the day with firm faith in it, and dies on the same day before the evening, he will be from the people of Paradise; and if somebody recites it at night with firm faith in it, and dies before the morning, he will be from the people of Paradise.”
[Sahih al-Bukhari; 8,75,318, at-Tirmidhi; 3393, an-Nasa’i; 5522, Ahmad; 16662]

Dua 05 When the Prophet’s ﷺ daughter felt weak he taught her this Zikr

حَدَّثَنَا سُلَيْمَانُ بْنُ حَرْبٍ، حَدَّثَنَا شُعْبَةُ، عَنِ الْحَكَمِ، عَنِ ابْنِ أَبِي لَيْلَى، عَنْ عَلِيٍّ، أَنَّ فَاطِمَةَ ـ عَلَيْهِمَا السَّلاَمُ ـ شَكَتْ مَا تَلْقَى فِي يَدِهَا مِنَ الرَّحَى، فَأَتَتِ النَّبِيَّ صلى الله عليه وسلم تَسْأَلُهُ خَادِمًا، فَلَمْ تَجِدْهُ، فَذَكَرَتْ ذَلِكَ لِعَائِشَةَ، فَلَمَّا جَاءَ أَخْبَرَتْهُ‏.‏ قَالَ فَجَاءَنَا وَقَدْ أَخَذْنَا مَضَاجِعَنَا، فَذَهَبْتُ أَقُومُ فَقَالَ ‏”‏ مَكَانَكِ ‏”‏‏.‏ فَجَلَسَ بَيْنَنَا حَتَّى وَجَدْتُ بَرْدَ قَدَمَيْهِ عَلَى صَدْرِي فَقَالَ ‏”‏ أَلاَ أَدُلُّكُمَا عَلَى مَا هُوَ خَيْرٌ لَكُمَا مِنْ خَادِمٍ، إِذَا أَوَيْتُمَا إِلَى فِرَاشِكُمَا، أَوْ أَخَذْتُمَا مَضَاجِعَكُمَا، فَكَبِّرَا ثَلاَثًا وَثَلاَثِينَ، وَسَبِّحَا ثَلاَثًا وَثَلاَثِينَ، وَاحْمَدَا ثَلاَثًا وَثَلاَثِينَ، فَهَذَا خَيْرٌ لَكُمَا مِنْ خَادِمٍ ‏”‏‏.‏ وَعَنْ شُعْبَةَ عَنْ خَالِدٍ عَنِ ابْنِ سِيرِينَ

Narrated `Ali:

Fatima complained about the blisters on her hand because of using a mill-stone. She went to ask the Prophet for servant, but she did not find him (at home) and had to inform `Aisha of her need. When he came, `Aisha informed him about it. `Ali added: The Prophet (ﷺ) came to us when we had gone to our beds. When I was going to get up, he said, “‘Stay in your places,” and sat between us, till I felt the coolness of the feet on my chest. The Prophet (ﷺ) then said, “Shall I not tell you of a thing which is better for you than a servant? When you (both) go to your beds, say ‘Allahu Akbar’ thirty-four times, and ‘Subhan Allah’ thirty-three times, ‘Al hamdu ‘illah’ thirty-three times, for that is better for you than a servant.” Ibn Seereen said, “Subhan Allah’ (is to be said for) thirty-four times.”

http://sunnah.com/bukhari/80/15

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Baby It’s Cold Outside: A Dua To Help You Make The Most of The Severely Cold Weather

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لا ِاله ِالا الله ُمَا أشَدَّ بَرْدَ هذا الْيَوْمْ ، اَللّهُمَّ أجِرْنِيْ مِنْ زَمْهَريْرِجَهَنَّمْ – رواه ابن السني

Laa ilaaha illallahu ma ashadda barda hazhal yawm , allahumma ajirni min zamhareeri jahannam.

Translation: “There is no deity but Allah, How severe is the cold of today!

O Allah! Protect me from the severe cold of Jahannam”

Rasulullah ṣallallāhu 'alayhi wa sallam (peace and blessings of Allāh be upon him) is reported to have said: ” When a person recites this supplication, Allah ṣallallāhu 'alayhi wa sallam (peace and blessings of Allāh be upon him) says to Jahannam: “Verily a servant of mine has sought refuge in me from you, bear testimony that I have granted him salvation from you”

(Ibn Sunni)

Here is a hadith that makes this clear.

Sayyiduna Abu Hurarah Radiyallahu Anhu reported that Rasulullah ṣallallāhu 'alayhi wa sallam (peace and blessings of Allāh be upon him) said: “ Jahannam complained to its Lord saying ;”Oh My Lord! Parts within me have devoured each other” So Allah subḥānahu wa ta'āla (glorified and exalted be He) allowed it two breaths; one in summer and the other in winter. Therefore the extreme heat that you experience (on earth) is caused by the heat of Jahannam and the severe cold too is due to the Az-zamhareer (the extreme cold section of Jahannam)

 (Sahih Bukhari, Hadith 537, Sahih Muslim).

This article on Ilmgate explains the cold section of hell in detail.

Winter Reflection

Embracing the Winter Blues

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A Powerful Dua for Happiness

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‘Abdullāh ibn Masʿūd (may Allah be pleased with him) reported that the Prophet ﷺ said, “No person (“no believer” in another report) suffers any anxiety or grief, and then says: 

اللَّهُمَّ إِنِّي عَبْدُكَ ، وَابْنُ عَبْدِكَ ، وَابْنُ أَمَتِكَ ، نَاصِيَتِي بِيَدِكَ ، مَاضٍ فِيَّ حُكْمُكَ ، عَدْلٌ فِيَّ قَضَاؤُكَ ، أَسْأَلُكَ بِكُلِّ اسْمٍ هُوَ لَكَ ، سَمَّيْتَ بِهِ نَفْسَكَ ، أَوْ أَنْزَلْتَهُ فِي كِتَابِكَ ، أَوْ عَلَّمْتَهُ أَحَدًا مِنْ خَلْقِكَ ، أَوْ اسْتَأْثَرْتَ بِهِ فِي عِلْمِ الْغَيْبِ عِنْدَكَ ، أَنْ تَجْعَلَ الْقُرْآنَ رَبِيعَ قَلْبِي ، وَنُورَ صَدْرِي ، وَجَلَاءَ حُزْنِي ، وَذَهَابَ هَمِّي 

(O Allah, I am your slave, the son of your slave and the son of your maid-slave. Your command over me is forever executed and Your decree over me is just. I ask you by every Name belonging to You, which You have Named Yourself with, or revealed in Your Book, or You taught to any of Your creation, or You have preserved in the knowledge of the unseen with You, that You make the Qur’ān the life of my heart and the light of my chest, and a departure for my sorrow and a release for my anxiety) except that Allah will remove his sorrow and replace it with happiness.”

They asked, “O Messenger of Allah, should we memorize these phrases (of the supplication)?” He responded, “Yes, whoever hears these words should memorize them.”[1]

Transliteration:
Allaahumma innee ʿabduk, wabnu ʿabdik, wabnu amatik, naasiyati beyadik, maadhin fiyya hukmuk, ʿadlun fiyya qadhaa’uk, as’aluka bi kullismin huwa lak, sammayta bihi nafsak, aw anzaltahu fee kitaabik, aw ʿalamtahu ahadan min khalqik, awista-tharta bihi fee ʿilmil ghaybi ʿindak, an taj-ʿal al-Qur’aan al-ʿađ̣eema rabeeʿa qalbi, wa noora sadri, wa jalā’a huzni, wa dhahāba hammi.

Duʿā breakdown and reflections:

“O Allah, I am your slave, the son of your slave and the son of your maid-slave”

Ibn al-Qayyim stated in his book, Zād al-Ma’ād,[2] that these words are full of recognition of who Allah is, and in it, the worshipper is calling upon the Lord, acknowledging the Creator, and presenting oneself as the slave of Allah, and the son/daughter of His slaves.

The supplicating believer also places things where they belong by recognizing (the following):

  1. that his fate is in Allah’s control
  2. that his destiny takes place according to the Divine Plan
  3. that Allah does whatever He Pleases with it
  4. that the servant can neither bring benefit nor harm to himself
  5. that he cannot bring about his own birth, death, or resurrection
  6. that he has no power to alter his decree except as Allah Wills
  7. that he is completely dependent on his Creator, Cherisher, Sustainer, and Lord
  8. that his own existence is subject to whatever Allah Decrees, and
  9. that Allah is Just, and what He Wills shall Be.

Your Command over me is forever executed and Your Decree over me is just.

 This part of the supplication highlights two important points related to the Oneness of Allah:

  1. The first is the recognition and confirmation of fate, and that Allah’s Decree regarding His slaves shall unfailingly come into being, and that His slaves cannot escape it or repel it.
  2. The second point is that Allah is Just; He does not oppress His servants, and His decree takes place by virtue of His Knowledge and Divine Justice. This is because injustice represents the need, ignorance, incompetence, weakness, and inferiority of an unjust individual, and therefore, such attributes are not Divine, and they cannot come from one who is Omniscient, All-Knowing, Wise, and has no needs.

Allah is the All-Wise (Al-Hakeem), and thus His Wisdom is in effect wherever His Will is executed and ordained. Every atom and every cell in the universe and the entirety of His creation is in need of Him, but He is Rich beyond any need, and His Will affects all of His creation at all times and places. Belief in His Wisdom, therefore, must be combined with full acknowledgement and humble recognition that the slave is unaware of the full scope of matters, even when they are perceived to be difficult, for the All-Wise does not oppress His slaves. He tests them to elevate them, to purify them, to strengthen them, and to increase them in gratitude, guidance, resilience, and purpose. He plans for His slaves better than they plan for themselves, and He wants mercy and salvation for His slaves more than they want it for themselves.

We are in need of exemplifying gratitude towards Him, and as a result, He increases us in blessings for our action of praise.

وَإِذْ تَأَذَّنَ رَبُّكُمْ لَئِن شَكَرْتُمْ لَأَزِيدَنَّكُمْ ۖ وَلَئِن كَفَرْتُمْ إِنَّ عَذَابِي لَشَدِيدٌ

“And [remember] when your Lord proclaimed, ‘If you are grateful, I will surely increase you [in blessings]; but if you deny, indeed, My punishment is severe.’ “[3]

  

I ask you by every Name belonging to You, which You have Named Yourself with, or revealed in Your Book, or You taught to any of Your creation, or You have preserved in the knowledge of the unseen with You…

The Messenger of Allah ﷺ is calling upon Allah by His beautiful Names and Attributes that He named Himself with, revealed in His Book, taught to any of His creation, or preserved in the knowledge of the unseen – to the extent that even the angels amongst His creation do not know of them – in a manner that is powerful, for such a prayer surpasses other prayers and is beloved to Allah and most certainly worthy of a response, because it highlights the slave’s humility, knowledge, and recognition of the Lord of the Worlds.

…that You make the Qur’ān the life of my heart and the light of my chest, and a departure for my sorrow and a release for my anxiety

The Qur’an, by Allah, is a cure for every type of illness in this world: mental, emotional, physical, and spiritual, if only we took it as a cure for everything, knowing that it is a means to rebalance the heart and retune the heart to its original natural disposition.

The Qur’an, by Allah, is a light for every type of darkness in this world, if only we embraced that light consistently, knowing that it removes the dark corrosions of sinfulness and heedlessness that accumulate in one’s heart.

The Qur’an, by Allah, is a relief for every type of sorrow and anxiety in this world, if only we resorted to it constantly through ease and through difficulty, knowing that it is a means of wiping away one’s stress, pain, anxiety, and sorrows.

The Qur’an as a cure, however, works only in proportion to how patient and sincere the believer is in embracing it, trusting in its effectiveness, and knowing that Allah’s Will, with His Speech as a prescription, will lead to an excellent and complete recovery, for Allah’s Promise is always fulfilled. 

No person suffers any anxiety or grief, and then says … except that Allah will remove his sorrow and replace it with happiness.”

This is a guarantee from the Messenger of Allah ﷺ who does not speak about religious matters from himself but rather from revelation.[4] This is a guarantee that the one who prays with this prayer, sincerely, humbly, gratefully, persistently, and patiently, will see that their sorrows are replaced with happiness. The one doing so, however, should not give up quickly on their supplication and should ideally implement as many of the etiquettes of duʿā as possible, such as repenting for one’s sins, being in a state of purification, facing the Qiblah, raising one’s hands, and so forth. 

They asked, “O Messenger of Allah, should we memorize these phrases (of the supplication)?” He responded, “Yes, whoever hears these words should memorize them.”

This final part of the narration reminds us of at least two significant points:

  1. It is important to benefit from what we hear as believers, particularly when there is an advice to do so. With this particular narration in mind, remember that every human being will face some type of sorrow or anxiety at one point or another in their lives, and thus it is wise for the believer to know these words and to pray with them often.
  2. It is imperative as believers to also share this duʿā with others for the sake of helping them gain nearness to Allah and relief from their hardships, by His will, while being rewarded for our sharing of knowledge that is of vast benefit. The one who encourages others to do good is rewarded equally – every time they perform that deed – without the performer of the deed losing anything of their reward, as was authentically reported.[5]

Conclusion

This duʿā is one of many reminders to bring us closer to Allah through sincerity, humility, gratitude, submission, and acknowledgement of His Majesty and the status of His Speech. Memorize this invocation and its meanings, pray with it frequently, and teach it to your loved ones, and may Allah the Exalted rectify your affairs, relieve you of your hardships, and reward you immensely for your patience and good deeds in this life and the next.

 

References:

[1] Recorded by Aḥmad (4167), al-Ḥākim (1809), and Ibn Ḥibbān (984).

[2] See: Ibn al-Qayyim, Provisions for the Hereafter.

[3] Qur’ān 14:7.

[4] See: Qur’ān 53:4.

[5] Reported by at-Tirmidhi (2613).

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