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Irshad Manji’s Shrill Responses Obliterated by a calm Dalia Mogahed


Dalia Mogahed, author of the best book ever on Muslim opinion (“Who Speaks for Islam”), calmly dispatches Irshad into the stands for a grand-slam, see must-view video below. You can read MM’s book reviews of the book (through part 3) here: | Intro | Part 1 | Part 2 | Part 3a | Part 3b

While Jeffrey Goldberg (I reviewed his Atlantic Monthly article on Israel here: Part 1 | Part 2) , the moderator, couldn’t quite keep the discussion impartial (though he does try hard), Dalia remains calm and effectively hammers Irshad’s case for a “new” Islamic reform into the ground.

Dalia’s response can be summed up simply as this: Islamic scholarship, acquired through a system of ijazah and extensive education, is against violence targeted at civilians based on classical interpretation; that the terrorists are in fact the new “mujtahids”, who have reinterpreted Islam, going against the fabric of traditional understanding. So, if we democratize ijtihad, then in fact we allow terrorists to claim the validity of their ijtihad against the ijtihad of any other unqualified individuals (like Manji for instance). To effectively shut down violent interpretations, we have to return the deen back to the scholarship and the traditions, not in fact to “reinterpret” as Manji suggests. Because reinterpretation is only necessary if the terrorists interpretations were correct in the first place. If we all agree that their interpretation is wrong, then the answer is to “go back to original”, and not fix what is not broken.  Basically, Dalia boxes Irshad with OBL, which is quite ingenious… and you can see how Irshad becomes completely speechless, conveniently referring to her silence as rumination.

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I believe what Manji needs to ruminate on is to stop “playing Muslim”. She pretty much hates everything about Islamic tradition, but the problem of rejecting faith of course, is to lose all the play you get with “playing Muslim” in the media. Manji should recognize that she got pwned by Dalia… if she is smart, which she no doubt is, or more accurately if she becomes spiritually smart, she would leave her ego behind and become Dalia’s disciple. Then at least, she could learn a thing or two about classical Islam, before trying to reinterpret what she never quite got the correct interpretation of in the first place.

So, Irshad, I say to you: stop lying about this secret fear that all Muslims have in taking you as their Muslim hero. I went to American colleges, I interacted with hundreds of American Muslim youth, 1st and 2nd gens, and if there is one thing that they don’t have enough of, is fear of any authority. So, your unproven, self-serving claim of a massive Manji-loving underground Muslim youth movement has neither any scientific data, nor any significant anecdotal backing. Rather, Muslims, even those with minimal Islamic practice, can’t stand your self-righteousness, egotism, and your role as an Islamophobia-creation tool.

Finally, Irshad, to prove your “level of support” from your own words, you mention how you got 12 emails about Muslims falling in love with non-Muslims… Irshad, do I need to remind you that 12 represents exactly 0.0000008% of Muslims in the world. Even if you have support among 100,000 Muslims (it’s Ramadan so I am being over-generous), that would put your popularity at 0.007% of all Muslims. Considering that the wacky, self-proclaimed prophet (false one no doubt), Mirza Ghulam Ahmed has gotten about 5 million adherents (I am being generous here), your 100,000 pales in comparison. Just goes to show that a few “personal examples” that you love to quote are meaningless in the face of scientific data that Dalia put together. The book, “Who Speaks for Islam” is a piece of work which we are all thankful for, because no longer can people like you, Irshad, claim that you somehow represent Muslims, even in the most minor of ways.

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  1. Amy

    October 23, 2008 at 1:29 AM

    Salaam Amad

    While in general I agree with your sentiments, and I commend you for bringing this debate to the attention of your readers, I thought I should let you know that the image you posted does not seem representative of the scholarly and respectable tenor which I have come to expect and admire on this blog. Do you think that it shows the best of MuslimMatters and even mainstream Islam to new readers who might stop by?

  2. Abû Mûsâ Al-Ḥabashî

    October 23, 2008 at 1:53 AM

    May Allâh give this ignorant Shaytânah Irshad what she deserves. Amin.

  3. AbuAbdAllah, the Houstonian

    October 23, 2008 at 2:19 AM

    bismillah. digg this article :)

  4. Gohar

    October 23, 2008 at 7:00 AM

    Everyone should watch this debate it was that good.

  5. Blasston

    October 23, 2008 at 7:47 AM

    I quote Irshad Manji as saying “One can appreciate the Koran’s inherent worth, as I do, while recognising that it contains ambiguities, inconsistencies, outright contradictions — and the possibility of human editing.”

    – Why do we even give this women any press?
    – This above statement is sufficient, in my opinion, to remove her cloak of falsehood.
    – I would request a scholar, who is proficient in the science of takfeer, to make a final ruling on this women. Then we can move on as whole.

  6. Umm Reem

    October 23, 2008 at 7:48 AM


    I was a little skeptical when the debate first started about Dalia being able to refute manji…but mashaAllah I must say it is one of those very few debates that I watched ALL of it!
    sister Dalia is eloquent, confident and soooo calms, mashaAllah ‘alaiha!

  7. Dawud Israel

    October 23, 2008 at 8:14 AM

    Here is another video of Irshad Manji falling on her face (literally):
    And there was one more in Toronto where she and an Imam were on TV and she said something and the host asked the Imam what he thoughts and apparently he wasn’t even listening to her: “Oh sorry what? Oh no one listens to her anyways.” LOL

    FORA TV has a bunch of a really cool videos on there website. I highly recommend you check it out…it’s like Youtube, except for educated people. Really awesome if you want to get into modern discourse.

  8. MR

    October 23, 2008 at 8:31 AM

    Mr Manji is in it for the money. Mr. Manji must have problems sleeping at night.

    • YankeeWhisky

      November 11, 2012 at 9:55 AM

      I admire this woman’s intellect and prefer to listen to someone who challenges the negative dogma’s of Islam rather than someone continuing to rely on rote quotations.

      Was it not Luther, Zwingli and Calvijn who did the same with a bloated, opulent Catholic church ?

      Her being a lesbian has no bearing on this.

  9. clearout

    October 23, 2008 at 9:21 AM

    A while back Irshad Manji spoke at UH, and the MSA had a spokesperson on stage with her. She said something to the effect of “I never claimed to be a reformer of Islam? Who said that?” The spokesperson turned and said to her, “With all due respect maam, it says ‘A Call to Reform’ on the title of your book.”


  10. Dawud Israel

    October 23, 2008 at 10:03 AM

    Well, that one older gentleman in the audience hit a point:

    We ARE afraid of speaking out and think we’ll be marginalized by other Muslims and even non-Muslims. And that is the only reason why Manji has so much popularity–because she speaks out and sticks out.
    An example: You post something on the AlMaghrib forums and immediately brothers and sisters start interrogating because to them, if the shaykh doesn’t say it, it’s haraam. Khalaas.

    Is it the personality cults that center around shaykhs (regardless of schools of thought)? Or is it that we are clutching onto Islam so tightly that we are effectively suffocating it’s growth?

    We need to really get into mainstream everyday society rather than sit on our “Hizbi” Islands.

    And to an extent Saudi still exercises a lot of influence our perception of authenticand whatnot. Their interpretation is their interpretation and is meant for Saudi way of life–not the Ummah, but via their embassies, funding and Hajj dawah they can, effectively, control Islam. It’s pretty true and we need to realize that and not just follow along with Saudi, nor should we go to polar opposites.

    This is not to bash or anything, but to say that we DO need to formulate a Western vision of Islam–just as Muslims did for al-Andalus (Muslim Spain). I know some shaykhs are thinking the same thing but probably forgetting that a big part of that is speaking up and speaking out in the open.

    Shaykhs (especially in AlMaghrib, AlKauthar, Bayyinah) need to acknowledge “the other party”, whether it be the “two-man show” (ahem!) rather than referring to them as “He who must not be named” (this is code for Zaytuna and is exactly the point, AlMaghribies NEVER about Zaytuna out of fear from other AlMaghribies of being branded this or that). We need to get out of this shell and yes, I know it has to do with having a following as a shaykh and all that but, it means we are not going to get anywhere if we cannot talk openly amongst ourselves.

    And this is EXACTLY why there is so much controversy everytime someone says “Salafi” or “Sufi or “”Wahabi” because it’s like saying “Nigger”–we make the word lethal to ourselves, we allow it to hurt us and our self-image by not talking about it and how it has impaired our growth as Muslims in the West. Is that where we really want to stay–semantics? If we can get people to move beyond thinking that these words entail conflict then perhaps we can actually move the Muslims forward.

    Listen, the point is not agreement or disagreement but actually moving the community forward–what about the non-practicing Muslims, what about drugs? Or muslims running gangs? Islamophobia? Muslim Political lobbies? How about our refugees living in the West who visit Salvation Army more often then the mosque? How about the issues with families and divorce among Muslims?

    Are these issues issues or are they not? Yes they are!
    Are they bigger issues than tawassul? You can bet your future on it they are.

    These issues do not require scholars to agree on Aqeedah…they require you to agree on humanity. And they do require at least Muslims from different religious groups to come to the same table and look out for the everyday Muslim. The Everday Muslim is the measure of our progress and if these simple fundamental issues are not made the focus, shame on us.

    NONE of these issues can be effectively tackled UNLESS AlMaghrib/MuslimMatters meets Zaytuna (the two upper/middle-class practicing and educated Muslim communities) and focuses on the needs of EVERYDAY Muslims–NOT their own religious constituencies or the interest of making money from classes and seminars and talks.

    Either group on their own CANNOT tackle these issues…but together WE can.
    This MUST happen. And if it doesn’t happen then let Allah replace us with people who are better.

  11. Amad

    October 23, 2008 at 10:42 AM

    Whoaaa… Dawud, how did you take a Manji/Dalia discussion into a zaytuna/almaghrib debate? I know u have been trying to get that off your chest for sometime :) , but how does it fit here?

  12. Amad

    October 23, 2008 at 10:48 AM


    jazakillahkhair Amy.

    Just because the photo was distraction enough to attract even your one comment, I changed it (reluctantly though, as I was rather proud of my little photoshop creativity :) ). I agree about the respectable tenor that we try to maintain here inshallah, but I would like to say that all our articles have not been, and are not meant to be scholarly, just to be fair in receiving praise too :)

  13. Hidaya

    October 23, 2008 at 11:44 AM

    Whoaaa… Dawud, how did you take a Manji/Dalia discussion into a zaytuna/almaghrib debate? I know u have been trying to get that off your chest for sometime :) , but how does it fit here?

    LOL, thats exactly what I was thinking while reading his comment. Nonetheless, I enjoyed reading your comment Dawud.

  14. Dawud Israel

    October 23, 2008 at 11:59 AM

    Amad: During that Q and A part…the old man said that he thinks Muslims are afraid of each other and I think they are. A lot of what I said is what other AlMaghrib students have said and it’s about the things that no one wants to talk about.

    Now, if you are scared to touch on this issue and others here, and just try to swat it away, then I think that will just prove my point all the more. :)

    The Zaytuna-AlMaghrib issue should NOT be an issue and that is my point–for that unity in tackling the problems of everyday Muslims. Who was the Muslim in the audience who asked the question of Dalia and Irshad? A non-Hijabi sister which is very common for Muslims. That is the average Muslim in the West–not the Hijabi. Most Muslims aren’t practicing yet they are in touch with society, while the practicing ones are in our little groups, sitting on our islands away from the non-Muslims.

    Now, what I am saying is that the responsibility is on these groups to work for the Muslim cause in the West–TOGETHER. I am not saying to be apologist or we are all one–but to partner for the same common goals. Does that make sense?

    And there are brothers on either side who work together to meet these ends…but the shaykhs do not or at least do not do it beyond signing a document. And this is an obstacle for all of us.

  15. Dawud Israel

    October 23, 2008 at 12:01 PM

    Correction: No shaykh wants to talk about it OPENLY (except for example Suhaib Webb) but everyone wants them to talk about it.

  16. ibnabeeomar

    October 23, 2008 at 12:36 PM


    it sounds like the issue that should be addressed is:

    Listen, the point is not agreement or disagreement but actually moving the community forward–what about the non-practicing Muslims, what about drugs? Or muslims running gangs? Islamophobia? Muslim Political lobbies? How about our refugees living in the West who visit Salvation Army more often then the mosque? How about the issues with families and divorce among Muslims?

    so why are you trying to turn it into an almaghrib/zaytuna issue? id be considered a very active almaghrib student by most standards, and i really don’t see the point of this discussion. it seems more of an attention getter than anything else. if the primary issue is whats stated above, then address the issue of how to outreach to a specific demographic of the muslim community directly without the other baggage.

    in either case though, neither is directly related to this topic :)

  17. Amy

    October 23, 2008 at 1:16 PM

    JazakAllahu khair Amad. Thanks for considering my comment. :-)

  18. Faisal

    October 23, 2008 at 1:20 PM


    Whats the issue of AlMaghrib vs. Zaytuna?

  19. mulsimah

    October 23, 2008 at 2:05 PM

    salaam I would also like the answr to that question. I never understood why Hamza yusuf had tell ‘zaytuna and almagrib to come together;’ and to preach unity? why are they apart in the first place? what the difference. I think we have a right to know.

  20. osman

    October 23, 2008 at 2:16 PM

    I think its best to ignore manji. Dont bring her up, or else it seems like she has legitimate arguments which she obviously doesnt.

  21. Amad

    October 23, 2008 at 2:17 PM

    Don’t know Faisal to be honest. I thought things were pretty respectable and calm between the two studen bodies.

  22. ibnabeeomar

    October 23, 2008 at 2:38 PM

    dawud, i would contend that your approach is in fact an obstacle itself. you’re just rehashing an old issue under a new cover.

    if you really want to address the issues you mention, then address them head on, but those issues are not intrinsic to almaghrib/zaytuna. i said it in my earlier post and i’ll repeat it here, but i think you are just being somewhat sensationalistic.

    one almaghrib or zaytuna students opinions of the other institute doesn’t preclude helping a muslim youth stop doing drugs. if you think it does, then maybe you just need to find a new crowd of people to hang out with :)

  23. MR

    October 23, 2008 at 2:45 PM

    I need to vent AGAIN…

    look out for another controversial venting post by yours truly in the near future.

  24. Amad

    October 23, 2008 at 2:48 PM

    I think Dawud you are getting some bad information on this “issue”, because to be honest I have attended AlMaghrib classes in 4 different cities, and don’t remember Zaytuna even being discussed or be a concern, or thought of as their camp vs. our camp. It is possible that some of the people you are talking to may be making it like that, as Omar mentioned, but that has not been an issue for quite some time now, esp. after the pledge thing.

    ANYWAYS… maybe you can use the open thread to bring specific concerns, but this post has really nothing to do with this topic. So, pls, let’s move on and remember that both Zaytuna and AlMaghrib, teachers and students, can agree that Dalia ROCKED, and Manji got PWNED!

    In that spirit of agreement, let’s talk about why someone like Manji can have ANY reach at all. She is very eloquent and intelligent no doubt, but come one, her background of pro-Israel (nearly neoconish) support, her openly pronounced lesbianism, etc… are all quite antithesis to a common Muslim’s beliefs. Even a non-practicing Muslim “gets that”.

  25. aarij

    October 23, 2008 at 4:19 PM

    Yeah…I fail to see why most of the comments are about AlMaghrib v Zaytuna v Dawud Israel.

    My question is, why was that wicked pwned image removed??

  26. Shahid

    October 23, 2008 at 4:22 PM

    Great post.

    I used to be a Qadiani and reverted to Islam in 2004. (If you google my full name, you’ll get the announcement at the top – shahid kamal ahmad)

    I’m confident that Qadianis do not number more than 2 million. (It is hilarious that on their channel MTA, they still claim 200 million!)

    If you’d like to know more about this dangerous and divisive cult, I would recommend that brothers and sisters visit our site at and check out the blog and the forum there. Feel free to join us and we will be happy to advise Muslims on some of the devious arguments these people use.

    We don’t think Qadianis are in any danger of getting large numbers of recruits, but they do try and push themselves to the forefront of discussion whenever they want to distance themselves from the Ummah. Every soul we save from these deviants is good.

    And we should do what we can (as we are doing at and on youtube – check out my channel shahidkamal there too) to invite Qadianis to Islam. Who knows? Insha’Allah one day one of them might be like me and writing in defence of Islam!

    Great article btw – and Manji is an interesting case in point, because one or two lapsed Qadiani dissidents who become atheists actually point her out to be a good Muslim example! That’s the kind of rubbish thinking we need to nip in the bud!

  27. Mustafaa

    October 23, 2008 at 4:27 PM

    Irshad Manji is a terrible terrible woman. I pray that she catches some disease and dies by Allah”s leave

  28. sisterindeen

    October 23, 2008 at 4:30 PM

    Masha Allah is all I can say for sr. Dalia…!!!! May Allah give us all ilm and the eloquence and good speech necessary to convey it to others, ameen.

    As for Irshad……. PWNED big time. Did you see her face after sr Dalia likened her ijtihad to OBL and crew? Ouch..

  29. Asim

    October 23, 2008 at 4:31 PM

    First saw this on Irshad got PWNED big time.

  30. Amad

    October 23, 2008 at 4:45 PM

    Aarij, I thought Sr. Amy made a fair request.

    If you really like the picture, this is the link to it :)

  31. Amad

    October 23, 2008 at 4:58 PM

    Br. Shahid, may Allah reward you for your courage and your dawah against this evil cult of Qadiyanis.

    I can’t phatom though why anyone would believe this fool, Mirza Ghulam, who claimed “to have been taught Arabic directly by God and that he received the knowledge of 40,000 Arabic roots from God in a single night.”

    And, forbade his followers from fighting British occupation (hello?? anyone see a “British implant”??):
    “Behold! I have come to you people with a directive that henceforth jihad with the sword has come to an end but jihad for the purification of your souls still remains. This injunction is not from me but rather it is the will of God.” (British Government and Jihad pg.15)

  32. Shahid

    October 23, 2008 at 5:09 PM

    Jazkallah khayr!

    If you visit the blog and forum, particularly the blog of late, you will see the most amazing contortions these people go to in order to justify their deviance.

    Mirza was indeed the most contradictory man in the Indian subcontinent. Regardless of all the other issues of kufr in his writings, the one that upsets me the most is his fawning obeisance towards the occupation of his homeland, where his fellow Indians of all religions were ruthlessly oppressed and starved.

    In fact, Mirza set the tone for the dajjalic lying of the big liars today.

  33. Dawud Israel

    October 23, 2008 at 5:29 PM

    I’ll bring it up later in the open thread in sha Allah, but any responses from hereon should be emailed to me ( so as not to distract from this discussion on the video.

    dawud, i would contend that your approach is in fact an obstacle itself. you’re just rehashing an old issue under a new cover.

    If what ibnabeeomar said is true, and there is no conflict between these camps, then my proposition is that they should work together and if they are not, then my question is why are they not?

    one almaghrib or zaytuna students opinions of the other institute doesn’t preclude helping a muslim youth stop doing drugs. if you think it does, then maybe you just need to find a new crowd of people to hang out with

    You are telling me to ditch BOTH of these groups (I am, like most, an AlMaghribie) if I want to actually do something for the community. And my response is I shouldn’t have to abandon AlMaghrib nor Zaytuna in order to create change. These groups should be focusing on these problem and doing it together, so I don’t have to choose one over another.

    I do NOT belong to anyone’s clique and I do not let them define me. I am focused on pushing our community forward–ALL Muslims, regardless of minute details. And a big obstacle to that is this mentality of groups. Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wasalam whilst dying cried “Ummati Ummati” (My Ummah, My Ummah)–and this is who he cared for. You can fret about your group, fine, but not at the expense of the Ummah and the Western Muslim community at large, which is what has happened because there is no unity in activism between these Muslim groups!

    In my experience, if you want to get anything beneficial done for our community, often it involves having to make room for another persons interpretation of Islam–which is fine, but when they sound brainwashed, you quickly realize they won’t do anything unless the shaykh at the top whom they admire and look up to so much sanctions it directly. And this is where the crux of the problem endures. And this is why we are suffering. Unless the shuyookh at the top move, we stand still.

    In a nutshell, I went from the issue of fear inside the Muslim community (fear of each other vis-a-vis differences inside and outside camps) as a problem to our growth. Now, I know you have heard “AlMaghrib/Zaytuna” hashed in the past in the context of conflict and that is why I said “vs.” which is reflecting the “problem” we tend to assume exists when in reality it may not be there–but just bringing up the past (when it was there) makes it (re)exist. The only way you can get rid of this dichotomy (AlMaghrib “vs.” Zaytuna) is by having both of them work together. Otherwise, it’s there to stay.

    Now if I caused confusion, havoc and controversy– I apologize and ask your forgiveness, but someone has to say it, and will try and raise this issue up later. Any responses should be emailed to me ( so as not to distract from this discussion on the video.

    Salaam aleikum

  34. AbuAbdAllah, the Houstonian

    October 23, 2008 at 5:34 PM

    bismillah. amad, i am pretty sure your first picture also lives on at the digg-entry for this article.

    a lot of the comments here are only tangentially related to this article — so here’s an idea for all of you: click the link to digg this article. digg the article and and post a comment there, too! let all your friends digg up your comments as well as the article — and your views will get even more visibility.


  35. B

    October 23, 2008 at 5:42 PM

    Amad: I feel it’s crass to be using words like stupid and idiot. I am sure you can get your point across while maintaining civility.

  36. MR

    October 23, 2008 at 5:45 PM

    the MM logo is now clickable!!!!!

    and yes MM has over 1,000 subscribers mashaAllah!!!!!

  37. Farhan Khan

    October 23, 2008 at 6:01 PM

    Dalia Mogahed is the MAN!
    Can I say that?

  38. Amad

    October 23, 2008 at 6:05 PM

    “B”, I removed both words from my post. I DO care about what the readers think :)

    MR: congrats. Just for you man.

    Farhan: Hmmm… I don’t think she’d appreciate being called a man, in any context :) I guess we should let the sisters answer that one! How about Dalia is the woMAN?

  39. Sunie

    October 23, 2008 at 6:21 PM

    I made du’a upon du’a upon du’a for Dalia as I was watching this. We should all do so

    May Allah forgive her, bless her immensely, protect her, and give her strength to serve Islam even better. Ameen yaa Rabbal’arshil’azheem

  40. Amad

    October 23, 2008 at 6:32 PM

    Sunie: I have been asking Texas Dawah to bring her as a speaker… I believe they will have her come for promotion events inshallah. She has the intellectual acumen, and a calmness in demeanor, that makes her an asset for the Ummah in the West. May Allah preserve her and increase her benefit for the Ummah.

    On another note, I would encourage everyone to visit the website Br. Shahid pointed to, We have added it to our links under “Connect”. Anyone who has a site or a blog or other means of electronic communications, should spread the info about this website. Because we need to counter the Qadiyani cult, and the best way to do so is education.

  41. AnonyMouse

    October 23, 2008 at 6:45 PM

    Dalia Mogahed is the MAN!
    Can I say that?

    No, you can’t! Don’t you think the hijaab kinda gives it away?!

  42. Zaynab

    October 23, 2008 at 6:51 PM

    It is AMAZING to see an educated, well spoken, Western Muslim sister who actually practices her Deen speaking about Islam :D Love it. We need more qualified, practicing people in the media speaking about Islam.

    May Allah swt protect her, increase her in knowledge and goodness, and protect her heart and tongue from deviating from the truth. Ameen.

    Pardon the digression, but I just have a small point of Naseeha for br.Dawud:

    And this is EXACTLY why there is so much controversy everytime someone says “Salafi” or “Sufi or “”Wahabi” because it’s like saying “Nigger”–we make the word lethal to ourselves, we allow it to hurt us and our self-image by not talking about it and how it has impaired our growth as Muslims in the West. Is that where we really want to stay–semantics? If we can get people to move beyond thinking that these words entail conflict then perhaps we can actually move the Muslims forward.

    I get the analogy, and I see the logic, but it’s not accurate and it belittles the word Nigger and its history. Good clip, and it is applicable when people start using the terms you listed in a derogatory manner, and just good advice over all. But please, refrain from using that example again. You may understand the word intellectually but you don’t understand the experience. May Allah reward you for the best of your intentions and work for His sake. Ameen :)

  43. abu abdAllah, the Houstonian

    October 23, 2008 at 7:39 PM

    bismillah. there’s another lesson to take away from post #13: exercise restraint. a good indicator of the lack of restraint? ending a blog post/comment with words that in any way invite the wrath of Allah.

    invoking the wrath of Allah should only be a solemn and deliberate act — so spouses who dispute a charge of adultery that is only levelled between them, they invoke the wrath of Allah. and in the most serious debate/confrontations between learned Muslims and those debating them, they may invoke the wrath of Allah, too.

    but in no good instance is that wrath invoked on all the believers. never.

    now if dalia and irshad had gone that far in their debate…!!!!

  44. Umm Reem

    October 23, 2008 at 8:33 PM

    I don’t think she’d appreciate being called a man, in any context :) I guess we should let the sisters answer that one! How about Dalia is the woMAN?

    NO WAY!!
    Dalia is a woman, talks like a woman, debates like a woman. Remember, no one can win an argument with a woman. Hence, only a woman can defeat a woman in a debate!
    *husbands should esp. know that by now!* :)

  45. ilmsummitee

    October 23, 2008 at 9:31 PM

    I just watched the whole debate…..mashallah la qoowata ela billah.

    May Allah bless sister Dahlia with goodness and increase her benefit to the ummah and as equally may he deal harshly in this world and the next with the other, whom does not deserve to be named.

    I think I’m gonna go buy the book “Who Speaks for Islam”, esp since Dr. Esposito is the co-author; mashallah his books are awesome.

  46. FearAllah

    October 23, 2008 at 9:45 PM

    It’s ironic how her first name is Irshad….

    And has nobody ever though about making du’a for this extremely deviated soul?

    May Allah knock some sense into her……i mean guide her to the true Irshaad, Ameen :)

  47. talib

    October 23, 2008 at 9:58 PM

    anyone know whats sister dalia’s islamic study backgroud. what i found in this website is only her secular studies

    “Mogahed earned her master’s degree in business administration with an emphasis in strategy from the Joseph M. Katz Graduate School of Business at the University of Pittsburgh. She received her undergraduate degree in chemical engineering. Upon graduation, Mogahed joined Procter & Gamble as a marketing products researcher.”

  48. ibn alHyderabadee

    October 23, 2008 at 10:05 PM

    cool MM logo got the link….i love MR

    i agree with what you are getting at Dawud……i havent seen that pledge put into much action either…but my opinion is relative and probably improper cuz i havent been in the US much in the past year or so

  49. Abu Zayd

    October 23, 2008 at 10:20 PM

    What I found most interesting was her reference to finding “a progressive imam from the West” to write her the interfaith marriages article. She claimed he was trained traditionally (studying in Saudi and Syria) and in the Western context. A little bit of research reveals the shoddiness of her claim. This person supposedly spent some time in King Saud University without earning a degree and some time at a Shiite institution in Damascus, before winding up as head of an ISlamic Studies department at San Diego State University. Among his interests are supporting feminisim, supporting the Jew’s right to Israel, fighting Muslim extremism and anti-Semitism (he includes all mainstream Muslim groups including CAIR and ISNA in this) and sexuality in Islam.

    What he is the “imam” of boggles my mind.

    Clearly there is little integrity behind Irshad and her ilk. They thrive on sensationalism and have little ground to stand on. I believe the approach they deserve is to ignore them and pay them no mind.

  50. ibnabeeomar

    October 23, 2008 at 10:22 PM

    I do NOT belong to anyone’s clique and I do not let them define me

    so why do you define something as general as reaching out to non-practicing youth in terms of almaghrib/zaytuna?

  51. Olivia

    October 23, 2008 at 10:32 PM

    huh, i didn’t know gay girls carried purses. you learn something new every day!

  52. AsimG

    October 23, 2008 at 10:42 PM

    I wish Irshad Manji would fall down more.

    No but seriously, I’ve said it 2 years ago and I’ll say it again.



    Cause she looks smart, she acts smart and her arguments make sense if your knowledge of Islam is limited.

  53. anon

    October 23, 2008 at 10:44 PM

    “huh, i didn’t know gay girls carried purses. you learn something new every day!”

    What exactly was the point of that comment? To showcase your stupidity?

  54. ibn alHyderabadee

    October 23, 2008 at 10:44 PM

    i know str8 guys that carry purses

  55. anon

    October 23, 2008 at 10:49 PM

    I think people make way to big a deal about Irshad Manji. I had never even heard of the woman up until it seems like every single blog authored by muslims that I had read started writing all these articles about her labeling her as the Great Satan and worse than OBL or something. As always, when you kick up a big fuss about nothing it becomes more interesting to those who have no idea what’s going on. They just want to know what all the fuss is about.

  56. Asim

    October 23, 2008 at 11:08 PM

    I like how we’re having 2 completely different conversations here lol. Tho I would have to agree with Br. Dawud to a large extent but that’s another discussion in and of itself.

    Check out an exclusive interview with Sr. Dalia on

  57. Olivia

    October 23, 2008 at 11:29 PM

    okay, so on a more serious note. her description of Muslim scholars it so way off “a very thin layer of elites?” it makes them sound like rich oligarchs who are only it for the money. also, i sense a lot of bitterness and generalizations from her. my husband has a super long beard and i have my own business, so i’d tell Irshad to speak for yourself (or whoever else your “desperate” fans are!).

  58. Olivia

    October 23, 2008 at 11:31 PM

    No, Anon, I was just interjecting some humor into the thread of posts. I’m sure most people who read it laughed, even if you didn’t (perhaps you’re a gay girl with a purse too? just kidding!) ;)

  59. AnonyMouse

    October 23, 2008 at 11:36 PM

    Irshad Manji nauseates me… oh, and she doesn’t even have the appearance of intelligence. She may “look” smart, but the moment she opens her mouth, it’s quite obvious that she has no clue what she’s talking about and that the only people who listen to her are those who have an even lower IQ than she does.

  60. Dalia Mogahed

    October 23, 2008 at 11:36 PM

    Assalamu allikum;

    Jazakum Allahu khairan for all your support, dua and encouragement. I deeply appreciate it.

  61. Olivia

    October 23, 2008 at 11:41 PM

    By the way, anon, if your Muslim I love your for the sake of Allah and I apologize if that comment offended you in any way.

    Peace :)

    Great job sister Dalia!

  62. Olivia

    October 23, 2008 at 11:43 PM

    by the way, i agree with whoever said it above, that Irshad Manji runs on sensationalism. she’s the anne coulter of the islamic world.

  63. MR

    October 23, 2008 at 11:50 PM

    Maybe I. Manji got dumped by her dream man who was Muslim. Now she can’t get over the fact that she got dumped by him, so she is taking it out on the entire Muslim population and Islam.

    Heart broken people do crazy things you know!

  64. anon

    October 24, 2008 at 12:00 AM

    “(perhaps you’re a gay girl with a purse too? just kidding!)”

    LOL, nice :) Afraid i’m not, but who doesn’t love purses. No hard feelings btw :)

  65. cyma

    October 24, 2008 at 12:01 AM

    Irshad wants to change all the basics of islam by sprinkling some fairy dust to make it appear kosher to non conformist muslims. I mean who in their right minds would go to Irshad for Islam based advice on any issue. People like Ayan Hirsi Ali who are pitiable for their defiance of Islam at least do not call themselves muslim anymore. Sister Dalia of course is great in her defence. Scholarship speaks for itself. Self styled pseudo intellectuals like Irshad need to shut up before they make a complete fool of themselves. The sad part is the more you bash islam the more you get lauded in the west, even if you have no scholarship at all.

  66. drew

    October 24, 2008 at 12:05 AM

    People need to go back to basics all this excess contemplating is a distraction..

    Here is a little reminder you may find refreshing..

    5 prayers a day!

    Prolific isn’t it!?

    Yet if people acted on that little statement and spent their focus encouraging others, JUST IN SALAAT, we would be better off than all this bickering. We spend our energy on useless arguing when poor people are starving, neighbors and family are being ignored, Qur’an is not being memorized, Arabic is not being studied. News flash: Irshad Manji can’t even PRONOUNCE some of the words in Arabic much less understand Al Qur’aan al-Kareem. The other debater does make a valiant effort and I applaud her.


  67. Olivia

    October 24, 2008 at 12:24 AM

    [quote]Maybe I. Manji got dumped by her dream man who was Muslim. Now she can’t get over the fact that she got dumped by him, so she is taking it out on the entire Muslim population and Islam.

    Heart broken people do crazy things you know![/quote]

    um, and taking it out on herself by becoming a lesbian! i was serious about that purse comment….

    anyhoo, do carry on to more valuable discourse!

  68. Abu Umar

    October 24, 2008 at 12:34 AM

    Irshad Manji is from an Isma’ili background, and hence was never a Muslim. She just went from one form of kufr to another form (Isma’ili to outright secularist). The only reason any one even is aware of her existence is because the neocons and others of their ilk tried, and failed I might add, to promote her as someone to incite “reform” in Islam. People like Irshad Manji, ‘Amina Wadud, etc. will, insha’Allah, be swept into the dust bin of history where they belong.

  69. cyma

    October 24, 2008 at 12:58 AM

    whatever her (Irshad’s) background she is doing disservice to islam. she is also endorsing the filthy new book jewel of medina. i would never read it but the review on wikipedia is disgusting.

  70. sister_in_islaam

    October 24, 2008 at 1:01 AM

    Why does Irshad refer to the battle of Badr as part of “Islamic folklore” and part of legends??

    Helloo! Authu billah.

  71. Siraaj

    October 24, 2008 at 1:56 AM

    Irshad Manji looks at Islam and religion as a cultural phenonenon that can be changed and reformed, I believe. She doesn’t consider the Qur’aan perfectly preserved.


  72. Siraaj

    October 24, 2008 at 1:57 AM

    Mogahed = Mujaahid?

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  74. Abu Alee

    October 24, 2008 at 7:27 AM

    Why did Dalia Mogahed define a moderate Muslim as one who does not believe in violence? (45 mins)

    Is this Islam and is this the belief of those who run this blog?

  75. Ahmad AlFarsi

    October 24, 2008 at 7:47 AM

    Is this Islam and is this the belief of those who run this blog?

    no, that is not our belief. speaking for myself, we believe in the validity of both defensive and offensive jihad, but with the disclaimer that it must be carried out legitimately (i.e. not by killing innocents or acts of terrorism).

    Also, you probably misunderstood what Sr. Dalia meant, as I am quite certain that she did not mean that physical jihad is invalid, but that she was most probably simply condemning terrorism (even if she used a different word).

  76. Amad

    October 24, 2008 at 8:20 AM

    Did anyone notice sister Dalia dropping by and giving her props to everyone for their dua and kind words?

    So jazakillah khair Sr Dalia for dropping by with your comment :) we hope to see more of you and less of irshad when there’s a talk on who really speaks for Islam!

    And she spelled her name exactly as reported too, Siraaj :) its an eJyptian thing :)

  77. Ahsan Sayed

    October 24, 2008 at 10:17 AM

    AMad ur awesome!!! lets ust hope Irshad Manji reads this, and has some epiphany the next morning and repents.

  78. Faisal

    October 24, 2008 at 12:22 PM

    All Irshad requires is Tawfiq, which only Allah can bless her with.

  79. Ahsan Sayed

    October 24, 2008 at 12:26 PM

    Of course but who knows through whom or what the blessing comes from allah.

  80. Azam

    October 25, 2008 at 12:20 AM

    بسم الله

    There is a good chance that the author of this article does not get to read this but, InshaAllah, he does. While I agree, of course, with the authors arguments, he was extremely harsh in his article. I understand we are to enjoin good and forbid evil, but we should also do it with respect and in a gentle tongue; as Allah (SWT) says to Musa, speak to him (Pharaoh) in a gentle tongue. Maybe I am not understanding how the blog works, which is likely :), but using phrases like “PWNED” and “best book EVER..” does not seem right. Allahu Allim.

    Wa Salaamu Alaikum!

  81. DrM

    October 25, 2008 at 1:39 AM

    Very nice! Everything you need to know on Manji :

  82. AsimG

    October 25, 2008 at 1:06 PM

    Alhamdillah if you don’t think Irshad Manji is a problem, then you’ve been protected from her stupidity.

    Go to a college daw’ah booth and see how people mention her and look at the appeal she has to the ignorant and then you will see her power.

  83. ibn alHyderabadee

    October 25, 2008 at 3:10 PM

    i love this pic of manji

    looks liek one of my best friends from back in middle school…

    my friend was a guy

  84. Anonymous

    October 25, 2008 at 3:24 PM

    I think the title might be misspelled, I think “Obilerated” should be spelled Obliterated

  85. Amad

    October 25, 2008 at 8:36 PM

    thx anonymous … kind of embarrassing to get a title wrong :)

  86. AmatulWadood

    October 25, 2008 at 9:30 PM

    I think it’s more funny that it took 89 comments for someone to notice it! lol

  87. Shahgul

    October 26, 2008 at 1:53 AM

    Well spoken, Mashallah.

    I don’t know whether to pray for Irshad, or to curse her. My heart only curses her when she insults the Prophet, may Allah keep him and his family in peace. Amen.

    If sister Mogahid is reading this: Sister, your reward is only with Allah. One public speaking tip. Keep your hand actions to a minimum. They are distracting, speacially when your hand repeatedly covers your face.

  88. h. ahmed

    October 26, 2008 at 2:17 AM

    as salaam alaikum wr wb,

    2 points:

    1. I agree that irshad manji got ‘pwned’. However, as confused and wrong as she is on many important issues of the deen – she still calls herself Muslim – and all attacks against her should be limited to that regarding substance only, i.e. her views, opinions, etc. – and not against her personally. To read several personal against her is very shameful. We as Muslims should know better, and if anything this can be considered ghiba – and there is NO difference of opinion on the severity of ghiba. I mean c’mon, none of us knows whats in her heart – yet we all can agree that she is severely misguided. Instead of calling her a terrible woman, or questioning her intentions (shes in it for the money, etc.), or doing takfeer on her … why not make dua asking Allah (swt) to guide her.

    (I am not defending her zany viewpoints that are obviously wrong – but lets chill with the ad hominem attacks)

    2. This whole zaytuna/al-maghrib issue is no longer an issue. From top-down, any of us who know any of the scholars from either institutes know that they have nothing but praise for the “other side’s” scholars and institution. They have worked together on signing that pact as mentioned earleir in this thread – and many of them are close friends (zaytuna scholars and al-maghrib scholars). The ‘beef’ comes from ego-driven narcissistic atttitudes that just is doing nothing more than causing fitnah. And we all know the dangers of fitnah and starting it. We all should individually do our duty to calm down, humble, and educate anyone we see contributing to the whole salafi/sufi, zaytuna/al-maghrib, etc. fitnah. We are One Ummah – we all have the same intentions – and we want all of us to enter jannat. And thats that. And Allah knows best.

  89. shahgul

    October 26, 2008 at 9:06 PM

    h. ahmed wrote:
    “…I agree that irshad manji got ‘pwned’. However, as confused and wrong as she is on many important issues of the deen – she still calls herself Muslim …”

    I don’t know about that one. Just saying you are a Muslim and attacking the Quran, the Prophet sws, the sahab, the salaf. Does that qualify being a Muslim. That is sure sign of SERIOUS nifaq at least.

    What I can say with surety is that SHE IS DEFINITELY A DANGEROUS ENEMY OF ISLAM and a FRIEND OF THE ENEMIES OF ISLAM. She definitely tries, not to disagree with any interpretation of Islam, but to denigrate ayahs of the Quran, and the Sunnah of the Rasool sws.

    She refuses to say salah, like a Muslim (not just be lazy or find an excuse like us). She states she does not have to make salah.
    Ulema have declared people outside of Islam, for just not praying.

    Allahu aalim.

  90. h. ahmed

    October 26, 2008 at 9:32 PM

    Let me clarify

    Hher views to discredit interpretations of the quran that are agreed upon by consensus, denigrate anything in the sunnah, saying that salat isnt necessary, etc. – of course is WRONG and we should speak out against that – those saying/actions.

    And of course – by definiion a Muslim is one who prays, fasts (outwardly actions – the five pillars, etc.)

    By no means am i defending irshad manji!!!!!!!!!

    I thought i was pretty clear in my prior comment – but id just like to clarify that.

    May Allah guide us all. And Allah Knows best.

  91. gaze_dropper

    October 26, 2008 at 10:34 PM

    – I dont’ see how it is possible for brothers to watch such a documentary?
    – I think muslimmatters should really consider that in order for us to lower our gaze it is not possible to watch 2 women for 1 hour straight?
    – These posts are clearly directed towards women, and I ask that you put disclaimers on these posts for those who wish to guard their gazes.

    safeguard your work MM writers :)

  92. gaze_dropper_reply

    October 26, 2008 at 11:21 PM


    These posts are for everyone ok, just because they have women in them does not mean that they’re FOR women.

    So basically these two women should sit in their homes and debate via phone, or will their voices arouse some brothers too?

    Give me a break.

  93. Yusuf Smith

    October 27, 2008 at 5:55 AM

    As-Salaamu ‘alikum,

    Dawud Israel may have been talking about Carlos Menem, ex-President of Argentina, not Hugo Chavez of Venezuela.

  94. Ibnkhalil

    October 27, 2008 at 11:00 AM

    bismillah, the debate was really good. Irshad Manji needs to really ruminate. She has been misled and now she is misleading so many people. Her so called ijtihad is nothing but reinterpretation of the authentic sources of Islam.

    Recently, in a class on contemporary issues we covered the issue of reinterpretation. People who are using “Irshad’s ijitihad” have already come to the conclusion and are now distorting the text to fit their respective needs. So whats the point if you are going to reinterpret the whole thing? Audhobillah. May Allah destroy Irshad for making fun of Islam and corrupting it!

  95. Abu Umar

    October 27, 2008 at 11:42 AM

    However, as confused and wrong as she is on many important issues of the deen – she still calls herself Muslim – and all attacks against her should be limited to that regarding substance only, i.e. her views, opinions, etc. – and not against her personally. To read several personal against her is very shameful. We as Muslims should know better, and if anything this can be considered ghiba – and there is NO difference of opinion on the severity of ghiba. I mean c’mon, none of us knows whats in her heart – yet we all can agree that she is severely misguided. Instead of calling her a terrible woman, or questioning her intentions (shes in it for the money, etc.), or doing takfeer on her … why not make dua asking Allah (swt) to guide her.

    Sorry, but the woman is a kafira, we should have no shame in admitting such. Takfir is part of our religion and we need to acknowledge that. Yes there are groups that abuse the concept and go to extremes, but that doesn’t nullify the concept itself. Through out Islamic history scholars have made takfir on various groups and individuals: Jahm bin Safwan was declared a disbelieving heretic and executed by the khilifa, the extremist Sufi al-Hallaj was declared a disbeliever by al-Junayd (himself a Sufi) and executed, al-Ghazali made takfir on the philosophers and the batanis, ibn Taymiyya made takfir of ibn ‘Arabi, the Hanafi scholars of the Uthmani sultanate made takfir on the Safawid Shi’ites, the scholars of the Indian subcontinent made takfir on Ghulam Ahmad and his followers, etc. Irshad Manji is a kafira, of this there can be no doubt. She denies that the whole of the Qur’an is from Allah, she disbelieves in the legal prohibition of homosexuality, she calls to secularism, etc. All of these things are kufr that take one outside the fold of Islam. To make matters worse, she is not only disbelieves, but calls others to her disbelief and away from the true path of guidance. She is an enemy of Allah and of the believers.

  96. h. ahmed

    October 27, 2008 at 5:36 PM

    Through out Islamic history scholars have made takfir on various groups and individuals:

    Key word: Scholars.

  97. Abu Umar

    October 27, 2008 at 5:43 PM

    Key word: Scholars.

    And it doesn’t take a scholar to tell me that Irshad Manji is a kafira anymore than I need a scholar to tell me that Manji’s hero Salman Rushdie is a kafir.

  98. Ibrahima

    November 2, 2008 at 1:35 AM

    Assalam Walaykum,

    I’ve been really impressed with the comments I’ve read on this post regarding this video. Is almost everything I would have wished to say against Irshad. Though I’ve read numerous posts and articles from throughout these years, I felt I needed to comment on this one.

    Sister Dalia has a tremendous amount of patients, courage and to be on that stage and speak so fluently.

    On the other hand, I Pray to Allah that Muslims aren’t mislead by the advocate of Satan. Ameen
    Although I would love to comment further, I think just reading the posted comments will comfort my view on this issue.


  99. Ahmed

    November 2, 2008 at 4:12 AM

    Mashallah, the scholar sister was very thorough, well-behaved, and precise. Jakahallah for putting this video on here. I do hope the “irshad” character turns back to Islam and follows it with more sincerity and with right knowledge. Overall, good discussion from the sister;
    I know I benefited from what the sister had to say.

  100. shahgul

    November 6, 2008 at 12:57 PM

    Everything said and done, now is the time to start ignoring this person who’s name I don’t want to take.
    She is not worth the time, energy, video coverage, megabyte storage, air time, gas, mileage and speech effort we are putting in to support her career of nifaaq and fasq.

    I hope no one will ever meet her again to talk to her, look at her, answer her, sit in the same room with her, and therefore legitimize her.

    We had this discussion (sister Reem and I) after she came to Houston and some 500 Muslims turned out to attend her event (including myself), and therefore made her event a whopping success.

  101. Hafsa

    November 11, 2008 at 12:30 AM

    I find it a shame that we Muslims seem to enjoy intimidating and ridiculing other Muslims and not follow the ethics of disagreement in our religion while we expect others to respect or follow the classical methodology in Islam. I found the debate very interesting and I thought both speakers and the chair had organized a wonderful debate. I do feel saddened to see the ignorance on this forum and ask all of you to think about what is actually being said rather than stooping so low and trying to cut and paste coments out of theri context and pick on personal faults of an individual. Allah swt is the judge about who is a pious Muslim and may Allah swt guide us all, ameen.

  102. Bint

    November 13, 2008 at 4:30 AM

    anybody who doesnt practice islaam should not be speaking for islaam, simple as that.

    As far as arab youth go, whether in America or overseas, they are not just disenfranchised but highly misguided in two groups: mostly westernized and having no clue about islaam: they dont bother to practice so offcourse they are going to try to reform it not feel guilty about practicing it in the first place. and secondly the other arab extreme that go become khwariji or terrorists.

    I hope Irshad read this: Why would I take you seriously? you dont wear hijaab, you are a gay woman and you dont even have islaamic scholarship. You dont even have a bachelor in Islaamic studies for crying out loud…. at least get a bachelor.

    Dahlia has a science background she is more educated and more well spoken.

    Besides, I dont like arguing with ignorant people, I dont know why Dahlia bothered to argue………………………..

  103. Gohar

    November 13, 2008 at 10:09 AM

    One point which the gay woman made was that you cannot compare scholars to doctors is because you can sue a doctor but not a imam. I found this argument irritating as it was incomplete, in that there was no explanation as to why this particular difference was important in assessing the validity of the comparison. If anything, it seems to be in favour of the comparison, because if you cannot sue an imam then it is even MORE important that you select a qualified one rather than just anybody. Similarly, since society cannot sue the imam either for any bad judgements he makes even though his individual rulings will have an impact on society, it can even be stretched to argue that society SHOULD be able to stop certain cowboy scholars from passing dodgy fatwas in the name of Islam.

  104. Hafsa

    November 13, 2008 at 2:03 PM

    To Bint and those like her:

    Who are we to judge if someone is a practicing pious religious Muslim or not? Even Allah swt waits until a person dies before passing judgment on him, so how are your negative comments going to help Irshad?

    Do you think the prophet went around doing character assination? How do you think the prophet pbuh dealt with people? Are you following his example? Do you think you will enter paradise while Irshad will enter hell? How do you know what state your iman will be on the day you die? Will your arrogance and pride take you to jannah? By slandering and backbiting you are simply losing all your good deeds. Instead of think ways of eradicating ignorance you are in fact encouraging it and not only that you are sending a potentially good Muslim astray because you are not using the wisdom of the prophet in conveying the true Message of Islam. Irshad is not a ‘gay’ she does not sleep around with other women and you have no right to pick on her juts to slander or find faults in her and there is a whole chapter on finding faults of people in the Quran so I suggest you read that first as you seem ignorant of it. Irshad is simply a Muslim philosopher, lesbianism was not in this debate and she has her concerns and weaknesses, like all of us do in many other things. Irshad is reminding us of our duty as Muslims to acknowledge the real problems at hand and to answer them. She may have tendencies towards lesbianism, but she is still straight and trying to make sense of Islam and the Quran. Just by her talking about her inclinations towards lesbianism doesn’t make her into one so your jibes/slights are not helpful.

  105. Hafsa

    November 13, 2008 at 2:24 PM

    Hijab is not the first pillar of Islam.

    Do you know your five pillars? As for Hijab, do you understand the meaning of hijab? Who are you to make ‘hijab’ as a head covering for women into the first pillar of Islam? If you read the Quran, Hijab is a MUST for men who came to visit the prophet’s wives, (Al-Ahzab 33:53) go and read the Quran as this verse doesn’t tell Muslim women to ‘wear’ a hijab or screen and shroud themselves completely from men in public life, it asks men to do that, because in those days people didn’t knock the door and went straight into peoples houses and bedrooms, it was a command to respect the right to their privacy and decency. The verse that mentions khimar (clothing or covering) is not only necessary a headscarf, neither is a jilbab, it can be any covering which hides the body and covering the hair isn’t even mentioned once in the Quran. However, there are verses for both men and women to cover their private parts and for women to also cover their chests and lengthen their garments for modesty. Inward and outward Modesty is essential for both Muslim men and Muslim women, but the headscarf is not. Only Allah swt has the exclusive right to tell us what is haram and halal and our laws are derived directly from the Quran, so you must give evidence from the Quran and sunnah if you think it is sinful or ‘haram’ for women to show their hair.

  106. Gohar

    November 13, 2008 at 2:35 PM

    Hafsa, people like you don’t live in the real world. Your naieveity is dangerous.

    And Bint was absolutely right. Even if we cannot easily say who speaks for Islam, we can certainly say who doesn’t. Why do you have a problem with that? If she feels no shame for her sins, and she doesn’t pray in the way a muslim should pray (i.e. facing mecca five times a day), then that DOES affect her credibility, and therefore does become a legitimate matter of discussion.

    Lastly, I just wonder whether you’ve ever written with the same passion about not judging or criticising Osama Bin Laden or others like him. No?… i thought not.

  107. Hafsa

    November 13, 2008 at 2:37 PM

    In fact I thought Irshad was very modestly dressed and who are we to judge anyone by their appearance?

    Quran 7:26

    O ye Children of Adam! We have bestowed raiment upon you to cover your shame, as well as to be an adornment to you. But the raiment of righteousness,- that is the best. Such are among the Signs of Allah, that they may receive admonition!


    O ye who believe! Let not some men among you laugh at others: It may be that the (latter) are better than the (former): Nor let some women laugh at others: It may be that the (latter are better than the (former): Nor defame nor be sarcastic to each other, nor call each other by (offensive) nicknames: Ill-seeming is a name connoting wickedness, (to be used of one) after he has believed: And those who do not desist are (indeed) doing wrong.


    O ye who believe! When ye go abroad in the cause of Allah, investigate carefully, and say not to any one who offers you a salutation: “Thou art none of a believer!” Coveting the perishable goods of this life: with Allah are profits and spoils abundant. Even thus were ye yourselves before, till Allah conferred on you His favours: Therefore carefully investigate. For Allah is well aware of all that ye do.

  108. Qas

    November 13, 2008 at 3:04 PM

    Who said Hijab is a pillar?

  109. Suhail

    November 13, 2008 at 4:47 PM

    So we have somebody defending Irshad Manji the known kuffara. She does not believe in Salah which is kufr as it is the main pillar of Islam. She does not give excuses like being lazy etc but she simply does not believe in doing Salah. First learn you deen yourself before lecturing others about what is Islam and what is not.

    And nobody is talking about her dressing sense. She has much bigger problems than dressing. That is the least of the concern.

    She ridicules Quran, Prophet(SAW), Sahaba and the salaf. If you feel problem with our post Hafsa then don’t post it is that simple but she is a Kafir and as is his other crony Salman Rushdie.

  110. Hafsa

    November 13, 2008 at 5:23 PM

    I defend Islam in it’s reality and I have quoted the verses form the Quran which you call indirectly call “kufr”.

    Suhail are you God to pass judgment on other Muslims? What is your first pillar in Islam? Let me answer for you, to believe in the Oneness of Allah, that there is no God but Allah and Muhammad is His messenger. Irshad is your sister in faith as she testifies there is no God but Allah and she believes the same creed you do. However if you and your friends keep up with your takfir, insults, backbiting and slandering, hate mongering, soon, you will have not only Irshad leaving Islam but also other decent believing Muslim Brothers and Sisters as well (including those wearing the headscarf). Now surely you don’t want the sin of sending other Muslims astray to amount on you on the day of judgement do you? I suggest you and Gohar grow up and start practicing your faith, be real men instead of mice and stop this chauvinism and picking on the weaker sex, women who think differently from you.

    If you really want to do something for Islam, I suggest you start with the basics and read the Quran fully, comprehend it’s meaning in it’s entirety, read the seera of Prophet Muhammad and practice your Islam like good Muslims. Instead of growing a superiority complex, grow a tree of taqwa whose fruits would benefit other living creatures.

    Oh, and btw these verses still apply to you:

    Qur’an 24:23

    Those who slander chaste women, indiscreet but believing,
    are cursed in this life and in the Hereafter:
    for them is a grievous Penalty,-

    Qur’an 49:12
    O ye who believe! avoid suspicion as much (as possible):
    for suspicion in some cases is a sin:
    and spy not on each other nor speak ill of each other behind their backs.
    Would any of you like to eat the flesh of his dead brother?
    Nay ye would abhor it…but fear Allah:
    for Allah is Oft-Returning Most Merciful..]

    Qur’an 2:256
    There is no compulsion in religion.
    The right direction is henceforth distinct from error.
    And he who rejecteth false deities and believeth in Allah hath grasped
    a firm handhold which will never break.
    Allah is Hearer, Knower.

  111. Hafsa

    November 13, 2008 at 5:33 PM

    Please note that I will not be responding to anymore personal attacks from arrogant so-called Muslims who neither read nor understand their own religion, having little faith and common sense.

  112. Qas

    November 13, 2008 at 5:54 PM

    Gohar and Suhail are so-called Muslims and Irshad is a Muslim? Come on Hafsa, be serious. Since we are “quoting”, lets listen to Umar bin Al-Khattab (RA), someone who understood the Quran better than you or I ever can:

    Narrated ‘Umar bin Al-Khattab:

    People were (sometimes) judged by the revealing of a Divine Inspiration during the lifetime of Allah’s Apostle but now there is no longer any more (new revelation). Now we judge you by the deeds you practice publicly, so we will trust and favor the one who does good deeds in front of us, and we will not call him to account about what he is really doing in secret, for Allah will judge him for that; but we will not trust or believe the one who presents to us with an evil deed even if he claims that his intentions were good.

  113. Hafsa

    November 13, 2008 at 7:20 PM

    This is my final mesage as I am not here to answer to those who use no sense.

    To Qas,

    You forget they attacked Irshad and me and not the other way around. I did not do takfir or insult them, but they have.

    The truth hurts doesn’t it, especially when it’s rebounded? In the same way I’d like you to look at yourself in the mirror and ask yourself, are Suhail (and others) who are calling another Muslim, Kafir are they behaving as Muslims? They are ‘so-called’ Muslims because they brag about their faith. They can’t be bothered to read and practice the Quran verses or understand that doing takfir can be just as sinful on them and they may be held accountable on the Day of resurrection for it.

    Irshad has the right to speak freely according to Islam, and has the right to participate in debates, and all of you should stop judging her as if you are angels. You do not have to believe her but you also do not have to insult anyone and drive them further away from the deen. If you had bothered to listen to the lecture she was standing up for ordinary mainstream Muslims like you and me. Those of you who were so busy insulting you missed that Dhalia and Irshad were saying almost the same things. I am glad Dhalia shook her hand as clearly Irshad was grateful in meeting her. So learn a lesson and be like Dhalia and pray for Irshad that Allah keeps her guided and on the straight path, because the Non-Muslims like listening to someone who can debate well. Instead of finding faults, search for the cure from homosexuality, through studying Islamic Psychology and Counseling.

    However, I think the first thing most of you who attack others need to do is understand the English language and go back to school, then to an Islamic centre to learn Islamic ADAB and the ethics of disagreement in Islam before preaching to others about their lack of Faith and education.

  114. Qas

    November 13, 2008 at 11:13 PM

    right back at ya, hafs

  115. Gohar

    November 14, 2008 at 6:30 AM

    The problem with not saying anything in order not to hurt Manji’s feelings is that there is a cost. The cost being that for every day we keep quiet, there will be an innocent muslim being misguided by her teachings. How many muslims do we need to watch being misguided before we realise that our duty is not just to her but to others as well.

  116. Bint

    November 15, 2008 at 12:06 AM

    and didnt you pass a character judgement on me? by calling me arrogant? No one is talking about heaven and hell here. I am talking about listening to a leader. Clearly we humans are not All Knowing like Allaah SWT so we have to go by outward manifestations of a persons reflection or institution of faith. Prayer is a pillar of islaam. And furthermore, Prophets were prophets by token of being better than the people.

    The least a leader or someone professing leadership, or someone claiming to speak for the masses is to be like them or similar to them.

    As far as I know flaunting your sins is not an islaamic concept at all. You can read her biography if you would like to know but it is a well known fact that her support of israeli apartheid stems from the fact that she is cohabiting outside of marriage with a “lover” who happens to be Jewish.

    So, no she does not speak for me and “others like me” as you like to call it.

    We follow islaam as much as we can: pray, fast, charity, ramadhaan, furthermore we do as the wives of the prophet did and take their examples as the best example by do covering our hair- as this act of ordained modesty is not just a part of Islaamic scholarship and tradition but indeed has remnants from the past traditions of Prophet Moses and Jesus’ laws and rulings.

    SImilarly, we get married. We do not date….or drink…. or insult the Prophet.

    Qur’aan that you are quoting, I would suggest you read about the verses that talk about hypocrites.

    So as limited in our knowledge, humans are we do have to make judgements about people in the world when we are deciding who we listen.

    And you do not think that Muslims advised her sincerly in the past?
    For sure, I am sure they did.

    But you know she wouldnt get that much attention had she been writing a book on “The Trouble with Foreign Policy in USA”

    rather she spoke about Islaam…. and landed herself a special Oprah recognition.

    articulation, being able to debate, self appointed leadership……they bring in the money yes….truth?……..well you tell me…..

  117. Prof. Hasan Yahya

    April 22, 2009 at 11:16 PM

    I read enough of opposing and supporting comments. From very simple people to very complicated. For All, I want to say this: Islam is not for sale, brothers and sisters. Religion is not a merchandise goes out of stock in business stores. It is similar to any other religion. Began with one person like Jesus and now the followers are counted by billions. Islam is distinguished by its simplicity. Anyone believes that God exists and He is the ONLY God. become immediately Muslim. If they deny this religious fact, and say there is God, but we are not sure, if God was HE or SHE, in this case they do not deny the idea of God, but they do not know the gender of God. These people we call them gnostic, If some do not believe that God exist as one, or two, nothing, those are ateists.
    People are free of their choice, whatever they choose, its up to them, we know that in Islam, in Christianity, Judaism, Hindhouism, or any other faith on earth, people are different in their beliefs and daily life actions. Religions [even some thinkers say: Religions are the creation of MAN] supported by research on primitive tribes, or cultural beliefs in magic and and fear, they still have crtain logic. But these remain uncertain and shakable cultural facts.
    The belief, I believe, cannot be defeated, because there will be some one or some group stand to defend it. All beliefs, I believe, have illogical logic to convince others that their belief is more true than the other beliefs, but in the final analysis, every belief has its supporters and its opponents.
    So relax, and enjoy life. Leave the Muslims for their belief, if like your belief to be believed, not to attack other beliefs, but to act according to your knowledge, and morality standards of the group or community you live in.
    The final analysis, is: No one may defeat any belief believed strongly by its followers. So why some people like to make other people like themselves. God does not need from human to support Greatness, He/She has wishes, and the power to send some to Heaven, and the rest some to Hell. All religions believe that. So I think any debate about religion is a failure between the debators. Because no religion can justify findings depends on facts. Simply, Islam is may be the least strange in its principles, and its practices, it is up to the person, if he or she want to perform religious duties and obligations, the surrounding social environment influence their morals and practices. This is a fact, because culturally, the two brothers or the two sisters are different. Their personality is different, their greedness has levels, their love has levels too. Their emotions are different. So every religion will have strong believer and weak believers, and in between believers. So where the reader fits? Islam at least explains this discripancy and according to its sacred book, [the Qur’an] this fact about human nature: [If you had control of the treasurers of mercy of God, behold, you will keep them back [for yourselves] for fear of spending them. because human being is (ever) niggardly!](17:100], So people are different but they all like to have more all times, therefore, the might strive to have more than the brother, the sister, and the peer. We all love sex, so we are not angels, We all love to have more, but not to be devils. All debators are also levels, some has knowledge with proof [Scientific or magical] some are strong in their oppositions other are strong to defend what they believe. So keep the winner out, don’t look for the loser. BECAUSE ALL OF US ARE LOSERS, ALL HUMAN BEINGS ARE LOSERS. FOR ONE FACT. WHO REMAIN ALIVE FOR EVER? Life is too short, Enjoy life, as humans err and make good in your life, to taste well. I support the idea that peace, is the peace of self. I advise debators to live with this fact. [prof.hasan yahya 2009]
    Final note: President Barack Obama was right in his decision to choose Dalia as an Advisor for Muslim Affairs. So Congradulation Dalia, and thank, Prince al-Waleed bin Talal, you are not the best but the possible for the job. Good Luck!

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