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The modern era is a period of significant development in the fields of science, technology, politics, and warfare. It is the age of discovery, invention, advancement, and fierce globalization. During this time, the European powers – and later their colonies – began a political, economic, and cultural colonization of the rest of the world.

“It’s a period marked by a questioning or rejection of tradition; the prioritization of individualism, freedom and formal equality; faith in inevitable social, scientific and technological progress and human perfectibility; rationalization and professionalization; a movement from feudalism (or agrarianism) toward capitalism and the market economy; industrialization, urbanization and secularization; the development of the nation-state and its constituent institutions (e.g. representative democracy, public education, modern bureaucracy).”1Foucault, Michel. 1977. Discipline and Punish: The Birth of the Prison, translated by Alan Sheridan. London: Penguin Books, Ltd. ISBN 978-0-14-013722-4. American edition, New York: Pantheon Books, 1978. It is what gave birth to the Modern world as we know it. We’ve seen capitalism, materialism, liberalism, and globalization spread across the world and impose itself on other cultures led by Western political and economic powers, specifically post-Cold War American capital. So much so that you can be sitting in a fast food chain in the city of Karachi, eating a burger, while listening to the latest rap song.

Modernity with its goal of institutionalizing a number of evolving principles such as moral autonomy, human rights, civil equality, consumerism, freedom of the market, and secularism2Khan, Zara, “Refractions Through the Secular: Islam, Human Rights and Universality” (2016). CUNY Academic Works. https://academicworks.cuny.edu/gc_etds/1618, has proven to be a great challenge to various religious traditions and communities particularly the Abrahamic Faiths of Judaism, Christianity, and Islam. In the modern secular world, religion should have no influence in the public sphere. As a result of this secularization of society, within the Muslim community we are witnessing a number of shifts in the way people view certain ideas, concepts, values, morals, ethics, and accepted religious tenets and practices. One of those shifts is how the concept of gender is understood.

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A powerful reason for these changes is that as Muslims, we live torn between two distinct worldviews, value systems, and ways of life: that of Islam, and that of the contemporary, secularized world created by the modern West. Although we believe in and practice Islam, we live in the midst of an alternative – and very powerful – intellectual, social, and moral paradigm that constantly imposes itself on us and seeks to mold our views, judgments, and personalities in its own image.

Whether we choose to admit it or not, we are heavily influenced by the society and culture we live in; specifically the Western education system of public and private schools and universities that most of us are products of. We have knowingly or unknowingly adopted a value system and way of life that is based on modernity, liberalism, and secularism.  For example, our understanding of the concepts and ideals of freedom, justice, liberty, equality, mercy, and fairness are informed through a very liberal and secular lens that refuses to acknowledge the Divine.  Because of that, we impose our understandings of these concepts onto verses of the Quran and aḥādīth of the Prophet ﷺ and end up finding certain verses or aḥādīth to be “problematic”. There ends up being this internal conflict that leads to doubts and confusion.

The purpose of this article is to help develop and shape a framework for understanding gender rooted in revelation; the Quran and Sunnah of the Prophet ﷺ. I am not trained in sociology, anthropology, or gender studies. I am sure that each of these areas of study can add value, depth, and nuance to the discussion, but I am going to try my best to focus on the topic based on my traditional training in the Islamic Studies Sciences.

Framing the Discussion

The concept of gender, especially as it is understood within the humanities and social sciences, is a relatively recent invention in human history.3Holmes, Brooke (2012). “Introduction”. Gender : Antiquity and its Legacy. Oxford University Press. pp. 1–2 Historically, gender was a grammatical term used to refer to masculine and feminine words and started being used to refer to a social construct in the 1950’s and 1960’s.4Holmes, Brooke (2012). “Introduction”. Gender : Antiquity and its Legacy. Oxford University Press. pp. 3–4. Sexologist John Money introduced the terminological distinction between biological sex and gender as a role in 1955. He coined the term gender role, and was the first to use it in print in a scientific trade journal. In a 1955 paper, he defined it as “all those things that a person says or does to disclose himself or herself as having the status of boy or man, girl or woman.”5Money, John; Hampson, Joan G; Hampson, John (October 1955). “An Examination of Some Basic Sexual Concepts: The Evidence of Human Hermaphroditism”. Bull. Johns Hopkins Hosp. 97 (4): 301–19.

Psychologists in the 1960s were the first to use the word gender to distinguish biological differences from social/psychological ones. In order to explain why some people felt that they were trapped in the wrong bodies, Robert Stoller began using the terms “sex” to distinguish biological traits, and “gender” to highlight the amount of femininity or masculinity a person exhibited. Separating these terms made theoretical sense allowing Stoller to explain the phenomenon of transexuality: transexuals’ sex and gender simply don’t match.6Mikkola, Mari, “Feminist Perspectives on Sex and Gender”, The Stanford Encyclopedia of Philosophy (Fall 2019 Edition), Edward N. Zalta (ed.), URL = <https://plato.stanford.edu/archives/fall2019/entries/feminism-gender/>

Western feminists took hold of Money’s and Stoller’s ideas and found it useful to distinguish sex and gender, allowing them to argue that many differences between men and women were socially and culturally produced and could be changed. For example, Kate Millet, in her book Sexual Politics, wrote that there are no differences between male and female sexes at the moment of birth because psychosexual personality (a term taken from Money) is something that is learned after birth (Millet, 1969).7Millett, K. (1969). Sexual politics. Granada Publishing. French writer and philosopher Simone de Beauvoir in her book The Second Sex (Beauvoir, 1949) laid the groundwork for feminists’ theories about gender. In her book she famously claimed that “one is not born, but rather becomes, woman” and that “social discrimination produces in women moral and intellectual effects so profound that they appear to be caused by nature.”8Beauvoir, S. de (1949). The Second Sex. [translation Parshley]. H.M. London: Pan Books. According to her, gender is a constructed category and a woman becomes a woman under the pressure of cultural surroundings.

Western feminists suggest that gender differences are a result of cultural practices and social expectations, and in modern discourse it is more common to simply say that gender is socially constructed. This means that genders and gendered traits are the “intended or unintended product[s] of a social practice” (Haslanger 1995, 97). But which social practices construct gender, what social construction is, and what being of a certain gender amounts to, are major feminist controversies. There is no consensus on these issues.9Mikkola, Mari, “Feminist Perspectives on Sex and Gender”, The Stanford Encyclopedia of Philosophy (Fall 2019 Edition), Edward N. Zalta (ed.), URL = <https://plato.stanford.edu/archives/fall2019/entries/feminism-gender/>.

Gender studies theory developed alongside and emerged out of Women’s Studies in the 1970s, and was later accepted by other disciplines within the arts and social sciences. Today it is studied as an interdisciplinary science. Gender theory has developed a system of values from which it follows that sex as a biological determinant does not have a major influence on gender; moreover, it is created through the process of socialization and culturation, often due to pressure from a patriarchal society. Thus, gender is a malleable social construct, not a fixed biological condition.10Poljakovic, I., PhD., & Dodig, G., PhD. (2015). Gender theory flaws. Journal of Human Sexuality, 7, 43-73. Retrieved from https://search-proquest-com.lib-proxy.fullerton.edu/docview/1844547212?accountid=9840

This has become the dominant narrative regarding gender – especially here in the United States -, as evidenced by how organizations such as the World Health Organization and Planned Parenthood define and differentiate sex, gender, and gender identity. According to the Planned Parenthood website:

Sex is a label — male or female — that you’re assigned by a doctor at birth based on the genitals you’re born with and the chromosomes you have. It goes on your birth certificate.

Gender is much more complex: It’s a social and legal status, and set of expectations from society, about behaviors, characteristics, and thoughts. Each culture has standards about the way that people should behave based on their gender. This is also generally male or female. But instead of being about body parts, it’s more about how you’re expected to act, because of your sex.

Gender identity is how you feel inside and how you express your gender through clothing, behavior, and personal appearance. It’s a feeling that begins very early in life.

In the last two decades Judith Butler, a famous feminist theorist, has contributed to the advancement and acceptance of gender theory through her work Gender Trouble. According to Butler, gender should be seen as fluid, variable, and “free-floating,” rather than fixed.

The discourse surrounding gender and what it really means to be a man or a woman is constantly changing and evolving. That is one of the major issues with theories that are built off man-made ideologies and philosophies, particularly those that are born from a secular worldview with a completely different ontology, epistemology, and teleology than Islam. They will constantly change and adapt to fit the dominant social, political, economic, and philosophical norms. Since these ideologies are man-made, there is no deeper cosmological purpose or origin for existence and that all values are completely separated from God and religion. According to the Islamic worldview – a worldview rooted in Divine revelation -, everything is connected to God and religion. The Islamic paradigm is rooted in faith in the Almighty Divine Being that has created this universe and everything it contains with purpose. Allah ﷻ rhetorically asks,

 

 

 

 

 

“Did you think We had created you in vain, and that you would not be brought back to Us? Exalted be God, the true King, there is no god but Him, the Lord of the Glorious Throne!” [Surat Al-Mu’minūn 23; 115-116]

He ﷻ also says,

 

 

 

“We were not playing a pointless game when We created the heavens and earth and everything in between; We created them for a true purpose, but most people do not comprehend.” [Surat Ad-Dukhān 44;38-39]

Universal truths come from God. Faith is not an abstract concept or some intangible reality that can’t be seen or touched. It is not some sort of emotion or feeling. Rather, a believer’s faith is something that is living and organic; it can be felt and seen. Everything we believe, say, and do as human beings should represent this faith. We affirm this faith with our hearts, we profess this firm, deeply rooted belief with our tongues, and we express it through our actions. Imaan is a combination of three major aspects:

  1. Affirmation and belief in the heart. We believe with absolute full certainty in the existence and oneness of Allah ﷻ and that Muhammad ﷺ is His last and final Messenger.
  2. Declaration that belief with our tongues by reciting the testimony of faith.
  3. Expression of that belief through our actions, both inward and outward.

A believer’s entire life is an expression of this faith; the way they worship their Creator, the way they deal with their parents and siblings, friends and relatives, co-workers and classmates. Faith is how they treat their husbands and wives, the way they treat their children. Faith is how they interact with others in society. It is how they earn their money and how they spend it. It is how they behave at work, on campus, in the gym, in public and in private. It is the lens through which they view the world and it is the source that drives their behavior. Revelation through the words of God and the guidance of His Prophet ﷺ inform how we understand the world.

Gender is Real

According to the Islamic narrative, Allah ﷻ created Adam 'alayhi'l-salām (peace be upon him) as the first human being, and from him created his spouse and partner Ḥawā. Allah ﷻ says at the beginning of Sūrah al-Nisā,

“People, be mindful of your Lord, who created you from a single soul, and from it created its mate, and from the pair of them spread countless men and women far and wide; be mindful of God, in whose name you make requests of one another. Beware of severing the ties of kinship: God is always watching over you.” [Surat An-Nisā’ 4;1]

The “single soul” is Adam 'alayhi'l-salām (peace be upon him), “its mate” is his wife Ḥawā, and from them humanity spread through the birth of “countless men and women far and wide”.  Allah ﷻ in His infinite and divine wisdom has created human beings in two distinct biological sexes and genders; the male and the female. Every single human being traces their origin back to this original pair of Adam 'alayhi'l-salām (peace be upon him) and Ḥawā; the “parents” of humanity. An interesting point to note about this verse is the usage of the word “soul.” Allah ﷻ is saying that He created Adam from a single soul and then He ﷻ created his wife from that same soul. Sayyid Quṭb writes, “God, who has created mankind, is the One who has made duality part of man’s nature, as it is indeed ingrained in all creation: ‘And of everything We have created pairs, so that you may bear in mind [that God alone is One].’ He then willed to make the human pair two halves of the same soul. Part of His purpose behind the meeting between the two halves of the same soul is that it should lead to peaceful existence and be a comfort to body and soul.”11Quṭb, In the Shade of the Quran, 3:108-109

Similarly, Allah ﷻ says in Sūrah al-Ḥujurāt,

 

 

 

“O mankind, We have created you from a male and a female, and made you into races and tribes, so that you may identify one another.” [Surat Al-Ĥujurāt 49;13]

In Sūrah al-Naba’a Allah ﷻ says that He has created us in pairs,

“And We have created you in pairs.” [Surat An-Naba’ 78;8]

Allah subḥānahu wa ta'āla (glorified and exalted be He) addresses humans as males and females. He ﷻ says,

“Whoever, male or female, does good deeds and is a believer, then such people shall enter Paradise, and they shall not be wronged in the least.” [Surat An-Naba’ 78;124]

According to the normative mainstream position of Islam – as is understood from texts of the Quran and Sunnah -, gender is of two discrete types: male and female. There is no third gender or neutral gender in Islam. Classical books of Islamic Jurisprudence discuss legal rulings related to individuals that are born with physiological ambiguities – such as hermaphroditism and genital agenesis -, and discuss methods by which gender can be established. Based on these methods individuals with physiological ambiguities are also classified as being male or female. A person’s gender is in accordance to their biological sex. Gender is normatively presumed on the basis of unambiguous biological constitution. If a person has a male private part they are considered to be a male, and if they have a female private part they are considered to be a female. This is not to say that culture, society, and tradition play no role in shaping certain behaviors within each gender. Culture, society, and tradition are powerful factors that shape and influence the way a person thinks, behaves, and speaks. Islam recognizes these external factors that influence behaviors and attitudes within both genders but they do not determine one’s gender.

The Male is Not Like the Female

When speaking about the birth of Maryam 'alayhi'l-salām (peace be upon him), Allah ﷻ says in Sūrah Āl ʿImrān,

 

 

 

“But when she gave birth, she said, ‘My Lord! I have given birth to a girl’- God knew best what she had given birth to: the male is not like the female- ‘I name her Mary and I commend her and her offspring to Your protection from the rejected Satan.’” [Surat ‘Āli `Imrān 3;36]

In this verse Allah ﷻ mentions an absolute, observable, and undeniable truth; the male is not like the female. Men and women are not the same at multiple levels; molecular, chemical, biological, physiological, emotional, and physical.

At the most basic level, differences between men and women are an observed physiological reality. Men and women are fundamentally different in ways that affect biology12Goldman, Bruce. “Two Minds: The cognitive differences between men and women.” Stanford Medicine. Spring 2017. https://stanmed.stanford.edu/2017spring/how-mens-and-womens-brains-are-different.html#, behavior13Ngun, Tuck C et al. “The genetics of sex differences in brain and behavior.” Frontiers in neuroendocrinology vol. 32,2 (2011): 227-46. doi:10.1016/j.yfrne.2010.10.001, thoughts14Roothman, B., Kirsten, D. K., & Wissing, M. P. (2003). Gender Differences in Aspects of Psychological Well-Being. South African Journal of Psychology, 33(4), 212–218. https://doi.org/10.1177/008124630303300403 Also see Angst, J., Gamma, A., Gastpar, M. et al. Gender differences in depression . European Archives of Psychiatry and Clinical Neurosciences 252, 201–209 (2002). https://doi.org/10.1007/s00406-002-0381-6 Also see Birgit Derntl, Andreas Finkelmeyer, Simon Eickhoff, Thilo Kellermann, Dania I. Falkenberg, Frank Schneider, Ute Habel, Multidimensional assessment of empathic abilities: Neural correlates and gender differences, Psychoneuroendocrinology, Volume 35, Issue 1, 2010, Pages 67-82, https://doi.org/10.1016/j.psyneuen.2009.10.006, and expression15Park G, Yaden DB, Schwartz HA, Kern ML, Eichstaedt JC, et al. (2016) Women are Warmer but No Less Assertive than Men: Gender and Language on Facebook. PLOS ONE 11(5): e0155885. https://doi.org/10.1371/journal.pone.0155885. These biological differences lead towards different behavioral and emotional inclinations and dispositions. There is currently a significant amount of research being conducted to pinpoint differences between men and women and the way they think, emote, and experience life.16Marton, Samantha. Gender Differences in Dispositional Attributes, Psychological Adjustments, and Appraisals. Diss. Vanderbilt University, 2016.

Revelation takes these differences in biology, behavior, inclinations, and tendencies into account and provides gender specific instruction and guidance. That is why there are some instances where instructions, rules, and regulations may be different for men and women. Natural God-given predispositions incline men and women to take on certain characteristics, qualities, and traits. The Quran and Sunnah recognize these natural predispositions and provide guidance accordingly. Who best to provide that guidance than Allah ﷻ, the Creator of the heavens and the earth and everything they contain? As Allah ﷻ Himself says,

“How could He who created not know His own creation, when He is the Most Subtle, the All Aware?” [Surat Al-Mulk 67;14]

It is very important to note that just because men and women are different doesn’t automatically mean one gender is better than the other or that one gender is inferior to the other. Within the framework of Islam one gender is not intrinsically better than the other. Nobility and being beloved to Allah ﷻ is based on internal factors such as faith, taqwā, sincerity, and righteous deeds. Allah ﷻ says,

“In God’s eyes, the most honored of you are the ones most mindful of Him: God is all knowing, all aware.” [Surat Al-Ĥujurāt 49;12]

The Prophet ﷺ said, “Truly Allah doesn’t look at your appearances and your wealth; rather, He looks at your hearts and your deeds.”17Muslim, k. al-birr wa al-ṣilah wa al-ādāb, b. Taḥrīm dhulm al-muslim wa khadhlihi wa iḥtiqārihi wa damihi wa ʿirḍihi wa mālihi, 2564

Moral Equality

Despite these natural differences that exist, men and women are moral equals in the sight of Allah ﷻ and are expected to fulfill the same duties of faith, submission, servitude, obedience, prayer, charity, fasting, and ḥajj. They are held to the same moral and ethical standards outlined by the Quran and Sunnah. Both men and women are mukallaf, legally responsible in front of Allah subḥānahu wa ta'āla (glorified and exalted be He), for fulfilling their obligations and responsibilities and will be held accountable for their speech and actions on the Day of Judgment. They are equal in terms of receiving the same amount of reward for good deeds and the same amount of punishment for bad deeds. There is equality in terms of reward and punishment, rights and responsibilities, and rulings that are in accordance with natural tendencies and inclinations. Regarding this reality Syed Quṭb writes,

“Because the two mates are two halves of the same soul, they stand in the same position in God’s sight. Since God has given mankind a position of honor, He has honored women, assigning to them the same reward for their good deeds, the same rights of ownership and inheritance, and the same rights of independence.”18Quṭb, In the Shade of the Quran, 3:109

In essence, Islam has established true equality between the genders not a false and presumed sense of equality based on liberal assumptions that seek to do away with any differences between the genders whatsoever. Equality through a secular lens is based on a certain understanding of what it means to be a human being and a person rooted in alternative metaphysical realities divorced from any sort of metaphysical reality. Equality in Islam is not seen through the lens of material qualities or attributes of an individual confined to the limits of the present world. Equality in Islam transcends the material and gives consideration to the equality of souls in front of God. As Allah ﷻ says in Sūrah al-Ḥujurāt, “In God’s eyes, the most honored of you are the ones most mindful of Him: God is all knowing, all aware.”

There is an interesting and beautiful incident from the life of the Prophet ﷺ that highlights the moral equality of men and women, which is also the cause of revelation for verse 35 from Sūrah al-Aḥzāb. Umm Salamah raḍyAllāhu 'anha (may Allāh be pleased with her), the wife of the Prophet ﷺ, narrated that she asked the Prophet ﷺ, “Why is it that we women aren’t mentioned in the Quran like men are mentioned?” She continues, “Then one day without my realizing it, he was calling from the pulpit and I was combing my hair, so I tied my hair back then I went out to my chamber in my house, and I started listening out, and he was saying from the pulpit: ‘O people! Truly Allah says, ‘Surely, Muslim men and Muslim women, believing men and believing women, devout men and devout women, truthful men and truthful women, patient men and patient women, humble men and humble women, and the men who give charity and the women who give charity, and the men who fast and the women who fast, and the men who guard their private parts and the women who guard (theirs), and the men who remember Allah much and the women who remember (Him) – for them, Allah has prepared forgiveness and a great reward’.’19Ibn Kathīr, Tafsīr al-Quran al-ʿAdhīm Every individual, male or female, has an equal opportunity to earn the forgiveness of Allah ﷻ and gain entry into Paradise.

Men and Women Complement Each Other

Islam is not limited to ritual and devotional acts of worship. Islam is not simply a creed or a theology. Islam is a complete way of life. One of the major components of Islamic teachings is social behavior and interaction. There is a lot of emphasis placed on family, community, and community building. Islam is not an individualistic or self-centered religion; rather, it is communal and selfless. Muslims are taught to treat others with respect, kindness, care, sympathy, compassion, generosity, love, mercy, and forgiveness. There is guidance on how to live as parents, children, spouses, in-laws, relatives, neighbors, co-workers, classmates, and any other relationship one can think of. The goal of these teachings is to produce healthy, productive, and vibrant families and communities that live their lives in a manner that is pleasing to Allah ﷻ. Practically working towards building healthy families and communities is a priority of every Muslim.

In order to achieve that goal of building healthy families and communities, men and women are meant to complement each other and not be in a state of constant conflict and competition. Men and women are both equally essential components of a healthy family and community. The relationship between them can be described as one of mutual support, help, aid, assistance, love, and comfort. Allah ﷻ describes men and women as being garments for each other. He ﷻ says, “They are [close] as garments to you, as you are to them.”202:187 One of the many possible meanings of this verse is that men and women are a source of comfort, protection, and cover for each other. Allah ﷻ also says,

 

 

 

 

 

“The believers, both men and women, support each other; they order what is right and forbid what is wrong; they keep up the prayer and pay the prescribed alms; they obey God and His Messenger. God will give His mercy to such people: God is almighty and wise.” [Surat At-Tawbah 9;71]

Commenting on this verse Imām al-Qurṭubī raḍyAllāhu 'anhu (may Allāh be pleased with him) writes that men and women support each other “means that their hearts are united in good terms, mutual love, and sympathy.”21Qurṭubī, al-Jāmiʿ li Aḥkām al-Quran, 8:129

While discussing the concept of believing men and women supporting each other, ibn Kathīr raḍyAllāhu 'anhu (may Allāh be pleased with him) brings a few aḥadīth of the Prophet ﷺ describing what this relationship is supposed to look like. The Prophet ﷺ said, “Truly the believer for another believer is like a building; they provide support to one another.”22Bukhārī, k. al-ṣalāh, b. tashbīk al-aṣābiʿ fī al-masjid wa ghayrihi, 481 In this ḥadīth the Prophet ﷺ is giving a very beautiful and profound example. The entire Muslim community is like one building and each believer is a brick in that building providing support and strength to one another. In another ḥadīth the Prophet ﷺ said, “The example of believers in regard to their mutual love, affection, and fellow-feeling is that of one body; when any limb of it aches, the whole body aches, because of sleeplessness and fever.”23Muslim, k. al-birr wa al-ṣilah wa al-ādāb, b. Tarāhum al-mu’minīn wa tʿāṭufihim wa tʿāḍudihim, 2586 The Prophet ﷺ also said, “Women are the counterparts of men.”24Abū Dāwūd, k. al-ṭahārah, b. fī al-rajul yajidu al-billah fī manāmihi, 236

Qawwām

Allah ﷻ says in Sūrah al-Nisā’,

“Husbands should take good care of their wives, with [the bounties] God has given to some more than others and with what they spend out of their own money.” [Surat An-Nisā’ 4;34]

The beginning part of this verse has been translated in several different ways. Mufti Taqi Usmani translates it as “Men are caretakers of women”, The Study Quran translates it as “Men are the upholders and maintainers of women”, and Yusuf Ali translates it as “Men are the protectors and maintainers of women”. Allah ﷻ describes men as “qawwāmūn” and each of these translations is trying its best to convey a comprehensive meaning of the word.

“Qawwāmūn” is the plural of “qawwām”, which is translated as caretaker, custodian, or guardian. Similar to other words in the Arabic Language, these translations don’t capture the actual essence of the word as they are all under-inclusive. al-Wāḥidī raḍyAllāhu 'anhu (may Allāh be pleased with him) writes, “al-qawwām means one who does their utmost to provide and support.”25al-Wāḥidī, al-Tafsīr al-Basīṭ, 6:485 A man is expected to exert their best effort in providing and taking care of the affairs of the women in his family. Ibn ʿĀshūr raḍyAllāhu 'anhu (may Allāh be pleased with him) writes, “The qawwām is the one who supports, takes care of, looks after, and rectifies the affairs of something.”26Ibn ʿĀshūr, al-Taḥrīr wa al-Tanwīr, 4:113

Being the “qawwām” is not some sort of right or privilege that gives man unjust and unfair authority or power over women or that a man is somehow inherently better than a woman, as mentioned above. It also does not mean that a woman cannot take care of herself. Rather it is understood as a huge responsibility that a man is required to assume within the structure of a family. That is why scholars conceptualize being a “qawwām” as a right women are entitled to within a relationship and not a male privilege. A man is required to take care of those under their care financially, physically, emotionally, and spiritually. As the Prophet ﷺ said, “A man is responsible for his family.”27Bukhārī, k. al-jumuʿah, b. al-jumuʿah fī al-qurā wa al-mudan, 853

Conclusion

Society, our system of education, the mainstream media, literature, art, popular culture, T.V., movies, and music heavily influence the way we perceive things and process information. Because of that we tend to project these influences upon our understanding and application of Islam. We start to look at Islamic rulings and guidance through the prism of modern liberal thought or other philosophies and ideologies, which can lead towards conflict within ourselves. As the discourse regarding gender and identity continues to evolve, develop, and change, it is important for us as Muslims to remain grounded in our own teachings and understandings that are rooted in the words of God and the example of His Prophet ﷺ. Our morals, values, ethics, and principles are derived from Divine revelation and should not be shaped by the changing standards of society around us.

 

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Shaykh Furhan Zubairi was born in 1983 in Indianapolis, Indiana. Shortly thereafter, he moved and spent most of his youth in Southern California, graduating from high school in Irvine in 2001. He began his pursuit of Islamic knowledge and spirituality at the Institute of Knowledge (IOK) in 1998, where he started the memorization of the Qur’an and studied the primary books in the Islamic Sciences and Arabic language. After starting college, he took a break and went to Karachi, Pakistan, for 9 months to complete the memorization of the Qur’an at Jami’ah Binoria. He returned home and completed his B.S. in Biological Sciences from the University of California, Irvine in 2005. He then traveled to Egypt to further his studies of the Arabic language. Thereafter, his pursuit of Islamic knowledge led him back to Pakistan, where he completed a formal ‘Alamiyyah degree (Masters in Arabic and Islamic Studies) at the famous Jami’ah Dar Al-’Ulum in Karachi. He has obtained numerous ijazat (traditional licenses) in the six canonical books of hadith, as well as the Muwata of Imam Malik and Imam Muhammad, and has also received certification in the field of Islamic Finance. Shaykh Furhan Zubairi serves as the Dean of the Full-Time and Part-Time Seminary Programs at the Institute of Knowledge in Diamond Bar, CA. He also serves as IOK University Chaplain for students at UCI and Community Chaplain for the local and extended SoCal Community, and he regularly delivers sermons and lectures at various Islamic Centers and events in Southern California. Learn more about Institute of Knowledge at www.instituteofknowledge.com.

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