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Listen to Them and Understand their Sexual Struggles (of our Muslim Female Youth)

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We have failed to recognize Muslim women’s, especially the female youth’s, trials of their voluptuous desires. At the most we have made an effort to acknowledge your desires to interact with guys, to be around them, to talk to them, to laugh with them, to share with them the details of your day, to have a boy follow you around, if at all your trials are recognized. Read More »

Single & Looking | Muslim Vignettes on Female Sexuality

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On Attraction from a Unmarried Perspective “If a man wants to betroth a woman, he can look at what entices him to accomplish his marriage.” [Reported by Abu Dawud] As someone who is looking to get married and extremely inexperienced in all terms of physical intimacy, all of this sex ... Read More »

Sex MashaAllah | Muslim Vignettes on Female Sexuality

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Disclaimer- this post is meant for a mature audience only as it contains sexually explicit material. Many men and women in our communities live under the illusion that only men feel desire or have an interest in being sexual, and that women should not or cannot feel attraction, do not ... Read More »

Quandary of Female Vaginal Discharge: Pure or Impure?

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When I wrote my last piece on female wet dreams, I received many requests to add a portion on vaginal discharge as well. However, since vaginal discharge is a common quandary among Muslim women and a subject of controversy among the scholars, I wanted to write a separate entry on this. Read More »

The Burden of Shamelessness and the Sexuality Crisis

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Sin, morality, evil, and good are being continuously redefined for the sake of our own ‘rights’ and preferences. Practices and lifestyles deemed intolerable a few decades ago are now commonplace and in the open. Nudity and scantily-clad bodies are ‘expressions of art’. Read More »

The Fate of Prostitutes

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The flourishing of prostitution in Muslim countries is a paradox that we often overlook as a problem of our ummah. As prostitution is condemned and forbidden in Islam, and these women, to an extent, are marginalized and invisible in our community, many of us are not aware of the magnitude and realities of this problem. We do not consider them as a cause worth fighting for as we do for the betterment of the poor, abused, homeless, oppressed and ailing. Read More »

Ramadan: Time to Kick Porn Addiction Out of your System

This article will help you KILL porn addiction or at least start on the road to recovery inshallah. We will learn about the physiology of porn addiction & why it’s so hard to quit. We'll address porn addicts not as losers. And highlight the Ramadan connection-simple changes towards a new life Read More »

Why Sex-Ed Should Be Given at Home and not in Public Schools

Those who are familiar with my works are quite aware that I have a deep belief in communication between parents and children. I have always emphasized that parents need to empower themselves with the tools necessary to teach their children about all sorts of topics, but especially one that is so sensitive and a cause of so many adulthood problems— sex. Read More »

Sex & the Ummah | Sexual Harassment: A Muslim Problem?

Sexual harassment is a growing problem among many Muslim communities around the world. It not only affects women, but the viability of a society as a whole is tainted when this violation is allowed to persist. This article explores ways that women can defend themselves, and how Muslim men and communities are obligated to respond. Read More »

Muslimah’s Guide to Puberty: How to talk to your daughter about Adolescence

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I want to hold on to her tight but she has started her journey to womanhood and all I can do is pray for her & guide her to the best of my ability. My baby can barely make her bed, how will she handle adolescence? It is natural, I know but I want her to stay a child for a little bit longer. Puberty is a confusing and emotional time for young girls. Their bodies are changing; their emotions are raw and magnified. Read More »