Sunday Open Thread 19-9-10 | What did I learn this Ramadan & How to enhance our Spirituality- Safi Khan

USA-Eid lights to decorate our home in California (Photo courtesy: Hina Zuberi)

Ramadan has flown past us, yet again and it is already over a week since Eid. It is hard to believe that a few days ago, we had a different routine and focus… almost like a whole other world. And now, as the Shayateen have been released, the Dunya has once again started to tighten its grasp, altering our focus and is eating away at the “Iman rush” Ramadan inspired!

I've been missing Ramadan so much recently, wanting that precious time back. I feel as if I never got round to properly entertaining and benefiting from the company of this awesome guest who visits only once in a year – and his visit, too, is uncertain (will I be alive to witness his arrival next year?). I did, however, wonder about how I could hold on to Ramadan for the rest of the year. The only way to really be able to do that is to stick to what you learned in Ramadan – even if it is one or two basic things – and then apply them throughout the year.

So what did you learn this Ramadan? Any particular lesson or incident that you plan to benefit from during this year? Since I'm asking you this question, I must also first ask this of myself. And here's the answer, in case it will help others (or even encourage you to share your answer, if it isn't too personal!) I plan to listen more to the recitation of the Qur'an and strengthen my bond with the Qur'an. In terms of relationships with people, I plan to work more to fulfill my promises and commitments – that is, better time management! Insha'Allah.

Before I step aside and have you post your Ramadan lessons and resolutions, here's some advice from another blog on our subject, aptly titled, “Islam not just in Ramadhan but 365 days a year!”

Stay connected with the Mosque (masjid): Even with the busy schedule, make sure you stay connected to the Mosque and visit at least once a day. This is especially important if you are living in a non-Muslim country like the US or UK.

Read regularly: Try reading the Qur'an, small Ayahs, Ahadith or even news or blogs about Islam regularly. This will encourage you a lot and Insha'Allah keep you energetic religiously.

Stay away from unhealthy discussions: The Shaitaan works slowly and gradually by tempting you to do small but wrong things. Try avoiding them as much as possible and not come under the influence of your friends as well.

So what have you learned this Ramadan that you want to carry on with you? What's your strategy to stay focused? Let's all benefit from sharing it here, Insha'Allah. :)

After Ramadan…How to Enhance Our Spiritual Growth SAFI KHAN