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		<title>By: Quran</title>
		<link>http://muslimmatters.org/2010/02/24/the-quran-and-me-developing-a-personal-relationship/#comment-98718</link>
		<dc:creator>Quran</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 24 May 2011 07:20:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>JazakaAllah kheir very effective article you have shared,it inspired me.The Quran is not only  about memorizing or Tajweed  but even more it was a revelation from Allah that needs to be understood.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>JazakaAllah kheir very effective article you have shared,it inspired me.The Quran is not only  about memorizing or Tajweed  but even more it was a revelation from Allah that needs to be understood.</p>
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		<title>By: Ai</title>
		<link>http://muslimmatters.org/2010/02/24/the-quran-and-me-developing-a-personal-relationship/#comment-75108</link>
		<dc:creator>Ai</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Sep 2010 08:58:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Mashaallah, very inspiring. I cant remember where i heard this but i love it, If you want to speak o Allah ,pray and if you want Allah to talk to you, read the Quran.
May Allah guide us.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Mashaallah, very inspiring. I cant remember where i heard this but i love it, If you want to speak o Allah ,pray and if you want Allah to talk to you, read the Quran.<br />
May Allah guide us.</p>
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		<title>By: Muqith Mujtaba Ali</title>
		<link>http://muslimmatters.org/2010/02/24/the-quran-and-me-developing-a-personal-relationship/#comment-71653</link>
		<dc:creator>Muqith Mujtaba Ali</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 17 Jul 2010 16:21:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Assalamu Alaikum.

A good article, alhamdulillah.

I would like brothers and sisters at Muslim Matters to have a look at this recently initiated weblog on Qur&#039;anic teachings http://yassarnalquran.wordpress.com/ 

Suggestions for improvement are welcome.

Vassalam.

Muqith</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Assalamu Alaikum.</p>
<p>A good article, alhamdulillah.</p>
<p>I would like brothers and sisters at Muslim Matters to have a look at this recently initiated weblog on Qur&#8217;anic teachings <a href="http://yassarnalquran.wordpress.com/" rel="nofollow">http://yassarnalquran.wordpress.com/</a> </p>
<p>Suggestions for improvement are welcome.</p>
<p>Vassalam.</p>
<p>Muqith</p>
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		<title>By: Jonny</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jonny</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Mar 2010 07:23:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Ismail Kamdar,

I AM GLAD TO FIND YOUR BLOG. IT IS ONE OF THE STORIES THAT I CONSIDER TRUE FROM GOD&#039;S BLESSING. MY NAME IS JONNY. I AM FROM USA AND I HAVE THE DESIRE TO FIND A WAY TO FAITH THROUGH ISLAM.  THE MAIN REASON I AM SENDING THIS MESSAGE IS TO REQUEST FOR AN ADVICE. I PERSONALY HAVENT READ THE WHOLE QURAN BUT I KNOW FROM PEOPLE THAT IT  IS THE WORD OF GOD FOR OUR LIFE. ISLAM IS A WAY OF LIFE...IF QURAN TEACH US THE WAY OF LIFE DOES IT ALSO MENTION ABOUT THE WAY FOR RELATIONSHIP???  CAN YOU SEND ME BACK SOME SITES OR CHAPTERS WHERE I CAN AUTOEDUCATE  MYSELF FOR MY RELATIONSHIP THROUGH QURAN?
THANK YOU IN ADVANCE.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ismail Kamdar,</p>
<p>I AM GLAD TO FIND YOUR BLOG. IT IS ONE OF THE STORIES THAT I CONSIDER TRUE FROM GOD&#8217;S BLESSING. MY NAME IS JONNY. I AM FROM USA AND I HAVE THE DESIRE TO FIND A WAY TO FAITH THROUGH ISLAM.  THE MAIN REASON I AM SENDING THIS MESSAGE IS TO REQUEST FOR AN ADVICE. I PERSONALY HAVENT READ THE WHOLE QURAN BUT I KNOW FROM PEOPLE THAT IT  IS THE WORD OF GOD FOR OUR LIFE. ISLAM IS A WAY OF LIFE&#8230;IF QURAN TEACH US THE WAY OF LIFE DOES IT ALSO MENTION ABOUT THE WAY FOR RELATIONSHIP???  CAN YOU SEND ME BACK SOME SITES OR CHAPTERS WHERE I CAN AUTOEDUCATE  MYSELF FOR MY RELATIONSHIP THROUGH QURAN?<br />
THANK YOU IN ADVANCE.</p>
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		<title>By: Shakura</title>
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		<dc:creator>Shakura</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 27 Feb 2010 19:48:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Oh the sunday class days! fond memories

I think there needs to be a balance though.

 I&#039;ve been to both types of Quran classes. The first  was probably started at age 8 ish, the teacher would beat us with a stick if we didn&#039;t do our memorization in class or were not behaving, everyone respected him and didn&#039;t act up in class.

 The surahs I got beaten for I find very easy to remember and are ingrained in my mind. At the same time Quran class was something I feared/dreaded, I would hide in closets and cry every week before class. Ten or so years later though I am very grateful that  I went there because I ended up knowing how to read the Quran and having a signifigant amount memorized.

The next class from age 11  was wayy more chilled, we didnt focus as much on memorization/reading Quran  but more on building up eman, learning lessons through stories, hadith..etc. That class got me to more build up my love for Allah subhanwat&#039;ala and the prophet sallahu alayhi wasaallam. I began to pray 5 times a day which is the best thing I got out of my experience. In my first class I would ONLY pray on sundays the rest of the week not once would I even do one prayer.

 I think both experiences helped me in different ways, the second class helped to me to actually WANT to learn the Quran while the first gave me the foundation of skills, so teachers need to have both approaches to be sucessfull.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oh the sunday class days! fond memories</p>
<p>I think there needs to be a balance though.</p>
<p> I&#8217;ve been to both types of Quran classes. The first  was probably started at age 8 ish, the teacher would beat us with a stick if we didn&#8217;t do our memorization in class or were not behaving, everyone respected him and didn&#8217;t act up in class.</p>
<p> The surahs I got beaten for I find very easy to remember and are ingrained in my mind. At the same time Quran class was something I feared/dreaded, I would hide in closets and cry every week before class. Ten or so years later though I am very grateful that  I went there because I ended up knowing how to read the Quran and having a signifigant amount memorized.</p>
<p>The next class from age 11  was wayy more chilled, we didnt focus as much on memorization/reading Quran  but more on building up eman, learning lessons through stories, hadith..etc. That class got me to more build up my love for Allah subhanwat&#8217;ala and the prophet sallahu alayhi wasaallam. I began to pray 5 times a day which is the best thing I got out of my experience. In my first class I would ONLY pray on sundays the rest of the week not once would I even do one prayer.</p>
<p> I think both experiences helped me in different ways, the second class helped to me to actually WANT to learn the Quran while the first gave me the foundation of skills, so teachers need to have both approaches to be sucessfull.</p>
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		<title>By: abu Rumay-s.a.</title>
		<link>http://muslimmatters.org/2010/02/24/the-quran-and-me-developing-a-personal-relationship/#comment-60542</link>
		<dc:creator>abu Rumay-s.a.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 27 Feb 2010 19:38:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>May Allah bless your journey of learning the Quran.  Ameen.  I have found through my friends that the key to learning Qur`an is essentially three.
1. Deep sincerity to Allah ta`ala and wanting to learn His book
2. Persistence and review with a good teacher
3. Lots of sincere Du`aa

One of my friends started memorzing at age 30 something and finished the complete Quran in about 5 years time along with his full time professional career and kids....he was living in a Muslim country which kinda helped (smile).  

I kinda understand what you went through, the good old transliteration days...hahahehhe....but i think its just getting over the hurdle of being &quot;ovewhelmed and/or intimated&quot; with the new language...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>May Allah bless your journey of learning the Quran.  Ameen.  I have found through my friends that the key to learning Qur`an is essentially three.<br />
1. Deep sincerity to Allah ta`ala and wanting to learn His book<br />
2. Persistence and review with a good teacher<br />
3. Lots of sincere Du`aa</p>
<p>One of my friends started memorzing at age 30 something and finished the complete Quran in about 5 years time along with his full time professional career and kids&#8230;.he was living in a Muslim country which kinda helped (smile).  </p>
<p>I kinda understand what you went through, the good old transliteration days&#8230;hahahehhe&#8230;.but i think its just getting over the hurdle of being &#8220;ovewhelmed and/or intimated&#8221; with the new language&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: Umm Bilqis</title>
		<link>http://muslimmatters.org/2010/02/24/the-quran-and-me-developing-a-personal-relationship/#comment-60523</link>
		<dc:creator>Umm Bilqis</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 27 Feb 2010 02:55:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Link&gt; Imam Ghazali, &quot; I fear there will be no one left to study Islam.&quot;

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AL1gz9zfGJ8</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Link&gt; Imam Ghazali, &#8221; I fear there will be no one left to study Islam.&#8221;</p>
<p><span style="text-align:center; display: block;"><a href="http://muslimmatters.org/2010/02/24/the-quran-and-me-developing-a-personal-relationship/"><img src="http://img.youtube.com/vi/AL1gz9zfGJ8/2.jpg" alt="" /></a></span></p>
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		<title>By: Abu 'Ubaida</title>
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		<dc:creator>Abu 'Ubaida</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 26 Feb 2010 13:14:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Jazakhallah khair all for the reminders. 

Just wanted to share this interactive website that has multiple facets of Qur&#039;an and it&#039;s translations.  Great resource to learn the qur&#039;an and it&#039;s translation at the same time (it has many use as well).

Allahsquran.com (and then Click the the LEARN-EZ  link on the top and it will take you to the Qur&#039;an page). 

Upon the page feel free to browse for different reciters &amp; surahs (top left) and different outlooks (top right). 

I hope you will find it beneficial Inshallah.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Jazakhallah khair all for the reminders. </p>
<p>Just wanted to share this interactive website that has multiple facets of Qur&#8217;an and it&#8217;s translations.  Great resource to learn the qur&#8217;an and it&#8217;s translation at the same time (it has many use as well).</p>
<p>Allahsquran.com (and then Click the the LEARN-EZ  link on the top and it will take you to the Qur&#8217;an page). </p>
<p>Upon the page feel free to browse for different reciters &amp; surahs (top left) and different outlooks (top right). </p>
<p>I hope you will find it beneficial Inshallah.</p>
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		<title>By: Umm Bilqis</title>
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		<dc:creator>Umm Bilqis</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 26 Feb 2010 01:07:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>More on Khashyah:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S0zmMGRFaYY</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>More on Khashyah:</p>
<p><span style="text-align:center; display: block;"><a href="http://muslimmatters.org/2010/02/24/the-quran-and-me-developing-a-personal-relationship/"><img src="http://img.youtube.com/vi/S0zmMGRFaYY/2.jpg" alt="" /></a></span></p>
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		<title>By: Qasym</title>
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		<dc:creator>Qasym</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 26 Feb 2010 00:49:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The kids that used to get beat the most in my Quran classes are the ones that ended up memorizing the entire Quran. And it is these same kids who are now alcoholics, drug-addicts, commit some of the biggest Major Sins, all because their teachers found that it was better to beat them to death and have them memorize the Quran. So they beat them rather than give them that sense of connection with the Quran. To them (and in most cases the parents too) it&#039;s all about telling people &quot;My kid is a hafiz&quot; no matter how screwed up he has become. The teachers in most of these madrassas never provide tarbiyya, guidance, or even an explanation of what is being taught.

As for the beating stories, I have witnessed everything from beatings done with Rolling Pins ie. what our moms make Roti with, to kids being hung out of the 6th story of an apartment building. The odd part is that this was predominantly the case in Indo-Pak circles and those kids were usually the best behaved. It was just when they didn&#039;t know their &quot;sabak&quot; that they got the beatdown. Pretty horrible stuff, most of which never really happened to me...maybe that&#039;s why I&#039;m not a hafiz:)

But all of this has stopped presently. I don&#039;t think Qari Saabs are allowed to hit anymore because kids are getting smarter and call 911. 

Allah (swt) knows best.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The kids that used to get beat the most in my Quran classes are the ones that ended up memorizing the entire Quran. And it is these same kids who are now alcoholics, drug-addicts, commit some of the biggest Major Sins, all because their teachers found that it was better to beat them to death and have them memorize the Quran. So they beat them rather than give them that sense of connection with the Quran. To them (and in most cases the parents too) it&#8217;s all about telling people &#8220;My kid is a hafiz&#8221; no matter how screwed up he has become. The teachers in most of these madrassas never provide tarbiyya, guidance, or even an explanation of what is being taught.</p>
<p>As for the beating stories, I have witnessed everything from beatings done with Rolling Pins ie. what our moms make Roti with, to kids being hung out of the 6th story of an apartment building. The odd part is that this was predominantly the case in Indo-Pak circles and those kids were usually the best behaved. It was just when they didn&#8217;t know their &#8220;sabak&#8221; that they got the beatdown. Pretty horrible stuff, most of which never really happened to me&#8230;maybe that&#8217;s why I&#8217;m not a hafiz:)</p>
<p>But all of this has stopped presently. I don&#8217;t think Qari Saabs are allowed to hit anymore because kids are getting smarter and call 911. </p>
<p>Allah (swt) knows best.</p>
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