Comments on: Sex & the Ummah: Prevention & Advice for the Victims’ Families Part III http://muslimmatters.org/2009/03/09/4125/ Discourses in the Intellectual Traditions, Political Situation, and Social Ethics of Muslim Life Wed, 08 Feb 2012 11:23:00 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Mariam http://muslimmatters.org/2009/03/09/4125/#comment-95914 Mariam Mon, 18 Apr 2011 06:16:43 +0000 http://muslimmatters.org/?p=4125#comment-95914 Asalaaum Alaikum- Alhamdulillah! This is an issue that lacks attention but that is soooo important. I would like to just expand on one thing: THIS DOES ALSO HAPPEN TO BOYS. Ya Allah protect us our children for this evil and soften the hearts of those who inflict this harm. Asalaaum Alaikum-

Alhamdulillah! This is an issue that lacks attention but that is soooo important. I would like to just expand on one thing: THIS DOES ALSO HAPPEN TO BOYS. Ya Allah protect us our children for this evil and soften the hearts of those who inflict this harm.

]]> By: um usama http://muslimmatters.org/2009/03/09/4125/#comment-56715 um usama Mon, 04 Jan 2010 04:08:22 +0000 http://muslimmatters.org/?p=4125#comment-56715 salam sisters i am in a situation and i dont know what to do :( my father used to molest me( but he didnt rape me) i am finding it hard naw ,that i have grown to be a woman and i have my own kids Alhamdolillah to act like nothing has happened:( i am finding it hard to be in a relationship with a man and i got divorced because of that. i dont know what does islam say on this ....................not sure about the right choices :( should i stay away from him? should i still give him respect as a father? can i keep his grandchildren away from him? do i have the right to hate him? can i just wipe him out of my life? do i have to ask him for his permition if i want to get married again? please do help me .....................salam salam sisters
i am in a situation and i dont know what to do :(
my father used to molest me( but he didnt rape me)
i am finding it hard naw ,that i have grown to be a woman and i have my own kids Alhamdolillah to act like nothing has happened:( i am finding it hard to be in a relationship with a man and i got divorced because of that.
i dont know what does islam say on this ………………..not sure about the right choices :(
should i stay away from him?
should i still give him respect as a father?
can i keep his grandchildren away from him?
do i have the right to hate him?
can i just wipe him out of my life?
do i have to ask him for his permition if i want to get married again?
please do help me …………………salam

]]> By: Sarah http://muslimmatters.org/2009/03/09/4125/#comment-56345 Sarah Tue, 29 Dec 2009 03:58:34 +0000 http://muslimmatters.org/?p=4125#comment-56345 I am an American Jew (and a victim of molestation at the hands of a teacher who now calls herself a Christian, but God knows better...), but I found your information helpful and very enlightened. First of all, you list only those aftereffects that have been soundly scientifically proven to happen. Secondly, you aim to make sure victims are still close to God. I love Him dearly. If not for Him, I would have surely slit my wrists that year she was my teacher, or sometime afterwards during the tumult of puberty. Allah has certainly blessed you with wisdom, intelligence, and insight. And a heart. That is what's most important. I send you love. I am an American Jew (and a victim of molestation at the hands of a teacher who now calls herself a Christian, but God knows better…), but I found your information helpful and very enlightened. First of all, you list only those aftereffects that have been soundly scientifically proven to happen. Secondly, you aim to make sure victims are still close to God. I love Him dearly. If not for Him, I would have surely slit my wrists that year she was my teacher, or sometime afterwards during the tumult of puberty. Allah has certainly blessed you with wisdom, intelligence, and insight. And a heart. That is what’s most important. I send you love.

]]> By: Sister: No non-sense, Please! http://muslimmatters.org/2009/03/09/4125/#comment-41088 Sister: No non-sense, Please! Tue, 31 Mar 2009 22:59:29 +0000 http://muslimmatters.org/?p=4125#comment-41088 <blockquote>salam “sister:no nonsense”, we weren’t ignoring you.</blockquote>Wasalaam. I never said you (all) were. Thanks a lot for fixing it. I can access it now. I was just trying to instigate a speedy response. : )

salam
“sister:no nonsense”, we weren’t ignoring you.

Wasalaam. I never said you (all) were. Thanks a lot for fixing it. I can access it now. I was just trying to instigate a speedy response. : )

]]> By: ayesha http://muslimmatters.org/2009/03/09/4125/#comment-41021 ayesha Sun, 29 Mar 2009 08:20:13 +0000 http://muslimmatters.org/?p=4125#comment-41021 jazakallahukhairan for the response ........im able to access the article now .... jazakallahukhairan for the response ……..im able to access the article now ….

]]> By: Amad http://muslimmatters.org/2009/03/09/4125/#comment-41007 Amad Sun, 29 Mar 2009 00:16:00 +0000 http://muslimmatters.org/?p=4125#comment-41007 salam "sister:no nonsense", we weren't ignoring you. Actually I thought the link was a problem, but only when I opened the article in Internet Explorer, did I realize that the article wasn't showing up. It was working fine in firefox... very strange. Anyway, it is working now... w/s salam
“sister:no nonsense”, we weren’t ignoring you. Actually I thought the link was a problem, but only when I opened the article in Internet Explorer, did I realize that the article wasn’t showing up. It was working fine in firefox… very strange.

Anyway, it is working now…

w/s

]]> By: Sister: No non-sense, Please! http://muslimmatters.org/2009/03/09/4125/#comment-40992 Sister: No non-sense, Please! Sat, 28 Mar 2009 15:45:19 +0000 http://muslimmatters.org/?p=4125#comment-40992 Aight, two ppl with the same problem here...any helpful souls know the answer? Aight, two ppl with the same problem here…any helpful souls know the answer?

]]> By: ayesha http://muslimmatters.org/2009/03/09/4125/#comment-40978 ayesha Sat, 28 Mar 2009 06:46:42 +0000 http://muslimmatters.org/?p=4125#comment-40978 same here ...even i aint able to veiw the article!! same here …even i aint able to veiw the article!!

]]> By: Sister: No non-sense, Please! http://muslimmatters.org/2009/03/09/4125/#comment-40951 Sister: No non-sense, Please! Sat, 28 Mar 2009 01:33:31 +0000 http://muslimmatters.org/?p=4125#comment-40951 how come part IV-A has comments but I'm unable to see them? I am unable to read the entire post (part IV-A) either. I see an error message when I click on it. What's up with that?!? how come part IV-A has comments but I’m unable to see them? I am unable to read the entire post (part IV-A) either. I see an error message when I click on it. What’s up with that?!?

]]> By: ummreem http://muslimmatters.org/2009/03/09/4125/#comment-40447 ummreem Mon, 16 Mar 2009 17:07:46 +0000 http://muslimmatters.org/?p=4125#comment-40447 worriedmom... email at: privatequestions@muslimmatters.org worriedmom…
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