- – Just as you cannot disclose another person’s sin, you are not supposed to disclose your own sin either. Both are haram. It is better to write about it in general terms.

Today I will make a sincere du’a that Allah fill your husband’s heart with shame, regret, and more importantly some deen.

More over, I pray that Allah not only provide you the Sabr you need to go through life, but ultimately fill your heart with peace.

My prayers are with you.

Salam

Guys for those living in U.S. i live United Arab Emirates, a muslim country..the internet people here seriously take islamic ruling on these things if not every important issue..i pray Allah guides them on that matter too…well the net company here etisalat banned all internet websites which are linked to porn but still you get obscene stuff once in a while, not to mention viruses too, when your searching for some stuff and some random websites come up…for faceboook i use adblock plus addon from firefox so i block all profile pics..so none of the images are visible except for those which i allow like the ones of islamic fanpages…and if i want to check in on a relative’s holiday picture i have to go to his profile and open photo column,even then it doesn’t show,..then i finally click on the picture to make it visible..so this is very useful if i wanna see some family pics of some adventure trip meanwhile at the same time avoiding dirty adds or other pictures in like friend suggestion’s box…so i advise all people to use mozilla firefox espeiclly with adblock plus add on so if you can’t see the bad pictures obviously less desire..

another thing i found out…the iLoveAllah.com fanpage on facebook posted..may Allah immensly award all those people contributing…even though the net service does ban the bad sites but u still get that once in awhile bad picture not completely explicit but bad enough for a muslim…use this k9 filter software created by pc tools which doesn’t even let you search bad things let alone watch bad stuff…for example u search for a celebrity fashion site..it doesn’t come up in the google search engine..Allahu Akbaar, a very useful software i found this…aside from this it also protects u from virus and malware sites…it was originally designed for parents to monitor for their kids but i find it really useful even though i know the password to it already…it blocks bad stuff..so if i don’t see it at all…how will i get effected by it? ins sha Allah i hope it stays this way for me because i’m just 17 and i have no idea how bad it gets in your 20s or after getting married…..

here’s the link to the website http://www1.k9webprotection.com/...

it’s super safe so don’t worry guys….it also has a protection from hate racism and those type of sites…well like i said it’s meant for parents who want to monitor their kids…in this case, our sisters who are struggling with their husbands can install this on their husbands pc’s…and set up a password which only they know…so the husband is protected ins sha Allah….this will greatly reduce the fitnah…..don’t forget other things too…praying to Allah(Exalted be He) to protect us and the dhikrs and stuff….i highly advise everyone here to start fasting on Mondays and Thursdays it REALLY helps trust me…i use to have temptation moments even though i never did anything bad…alhamdulillah…but when i started fasting mondays and thursdays, which it is a recommended sunnah to fast since it’s a virtuous deed, the desires stopped by a big margin….well i hope this,by Allah’s will, helps other people on here…

May Allah protect me and every muslim out there…Ameen.
JazakAllahukhair to all…Have a nice Day…..

I have been addicted to this for few years now. Don’t know whether I am a cursed creature or not. I assume that I am cursed with this disease after eating usury money from bank. And when a friend made a joke about his classmate that he like to see women private part.

I have tried to quite, but every time I see some movies or fantasies about some actress , I will addicted to this. For one year i simply burn my skin every time when i fall for this, but i didn’t work also to remove this addiction. I think I have burn mark from leg to hand.

I stopped burning my skin after severe thunderstorm, followed immediately after that. You’re skin just smell like grilled squid.

Then for another one year I was slicing myself with razor blade every time I fall for this. The dumb thing I have bipolar disorder with idiotic mood swing. Just like jekyll and hyde. When I am viewing this i don’t feel any remorse, later only I will have remorse. The more dumber thing about my life. Every time I think I have manage to remove this sick disease, that is the day I will fall.

So, I know it is really cursed sick disease that is really hard to cure. I stopped burning my skin and slicing myself any more,since both method just didn’t work. Really a dumb ass life.

Lastly, the only thing that you can do is hope that finally you would be cured from this cursed disease. Just like the story of murderer who killed 99 people. I think I have fallen for this more than 200 times.

http://eislaminfo.blogspot.com/2010/05/man-who-committed-99-murders.html

As a revert, I am embarrassed by the mentality some men have. You just further perpetuated the notion that women are nothing more than our pleasure objects, and it’s your fault that Islam is struggling as it is today. Let us not forget the reason for plural marriage- to protect the rights of those who have few. Not so we can substitute the less attractive with something more beautiful. This notion must have been something you realized in our late-night internet sessions.

I came here looking for inspiration to stop. My new inspiration is to not end up with your mentality.

Subhanallah may He guide you on a better path.