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		<title>By: Amirah</title>
		<link>http://muslimmatters.org/2007/07/11/does-my-head-look-big-in-this/#comment-91484</link>
		<dc:creator>Amirah</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 22 Feb 2011 17:41:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&quot;contempt for womanhood&quot;? You do realize that is glaringly against your religion, right?

The Prophet PBUH loved and adored his daughters (including Zainab who hid her non-Muslim husband from the Muslims and gave him sanctuary).

The person the Prophet PBUH referred to as the Most Beloved Member of his Family was his granddaughter, Umamah.

The Prophet PBUH loved his first wife Khadija so much that after she died he would become tearful when he heard her sister&#039;s voice which sounded so much like Khadija&#039;s.

He respected and consulted his wives on matters of the Ummah and what to do about wars and troops and would carry through the plans they suggested. 

Although you no doubt were taught that women outnumber men in hell, try reading Sahih Al-Bukhari and you will find that women also outnumber men in heaven.

The Prophet PBUH said to the man who asked him who deserved to be well treated by him the most, his answer was &quot;Your mother, then Your Mother, then Your Mother, then Your Father.&quot;

You yourself have an X chromosome, which means that half your genes are female. Which means that you too must be a &quot;silly, vacuous creature&quot;.

Have you never read the Hadith that any man who has several daughters and raises them well and treats them with love and kindness is guaranteed a place in Heaven?

Tell me, my dear misled misogynist, how do you expect to get into heaven when you find yourself standing before God and trying to explain to him that you feel contempt for what he created with his own hands and gave of his own spirit to bring to life (nafakh feehim al-rouh)?

I can only infer from your posting that you are either gay or are being abused by your wife. May God open your mind and close your mouth. Amen!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;contempt for womanhood&#8221;? You do realize that is glaringly against your religion, right?</p>
<p>The Prophet PBUH loved and adored his daughters (including Zainab who hid her non-Muslim husband from the Muslims and gave him sanctuary).</p>
<p>The person the Prophet PBUH referred to as the Most Beloved Member of his Family was his granddaughter, Umamah.</p>
<p>The Prophet PBUH loved his first wife Khadija so much that after she died he would become tearful when he heard her sister&#8217;s voice which sounded so much like Khadija&#8217;s.</p>
<p>He respected and consulted his wives on matters of the Ummah and what to do about wars and troops and would carry through the plans they suggested. </p>
<p>Although you no doubt were taught that women outnumber men in hell, try reading Sahih Al-Bukhari and you will find that women also outnumber men in heaven.</p>
<p>The Prophet PBUH said to the man who asked him who deserved to be well treated by him the most, his answer was &#8220;Your mother, then Your Mother, then Your Mother, then Your Father.&#8221;</p>
<p>You yourself have an X chromosome, which means that half your genes are female. Which means that you too must be a &#8220;silly, vacuous creature&#8221;.</p>
<p>Have you never read the Hadith that any man who has several daughters and raises them well and treats them with love and kindness is guaranteed a place in Heaven?</p>
<p>Tell me, my dear misled misogynist, how do you expect to get into heaven when you find yourself standing before God and trying to explain to him that you feel contempt for what he created with his own hands and gave of his own spirit to bring to life (nafakh feehim al-rouh)?</p>
<p>I can only infer from your posting that you are either gay or are being abused by your wife. May God open your mind and close your mouth. Amen!</p>
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		<title>By: halima m,</title>
		<link>http://muslimmatters.org/2007/07/11/does-my-head-look-big-in-this/#comment-87446</link>
		<dc:creator>halima m,</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 07 Jan 2011 00:30:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I enjoyed reading the book..it wasn&#039;t perfect in some aspects.. but nevertheless I loooved it! :D</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I enjoyed reading the book..it wasn&#8217;t perfect in some aspects.. but nevertheless I loooved it! :D</p>
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		<title>By: yong sofea abdullah</title>
		<link>http://muslimmatters.org/2007/07/11/does-my-head-look-big-in-this/#comment-49717</link>
		<dc:creator>yong sofea abdullah</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 25 Sep 2009 01:43:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I just bought this book a couple of days ago. Haven&#039;t read it yet, (im finishing my breaking dawn by stephenie meyer first).
I&#039;m a seventeen year old girl from malaysia.Technically, ive never faced challengeslike amal since i was born.
Raised in a muslim family, my mom is a  muslim, my dad (of course) a muslim and so does the at-least-400 people-radius around me are muslims.
when i read a little bit about amal, Alhamdulillah i never faced that kind of situation, in my life.
that&#039;s all. bye assalamualaikum...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I just bought this book a couple of days ago. Haven&#8217;t read it yet, (im finishing my breaking dawn by stephenie meyer first).<br />
I&#8217;m a seventeen year old girl from malaysia.Technically, ive never faced challengeslike amal since i was born.<br />
Raised in a muslim family, my mom is a  muslim, my dad (of course) a muslim and so does the at-least-400 people-radius around me are muslims.<br />
when i read a little bit about amal, Alhamdulillah i never faced that kind of situation, in my life.<br />
that&#8217;s all. bye assalamualaikum&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: From Somalia, With Love - Book Review &#124; MuslimMatters.org</title>
		<link>http://muslimmatters.org/2007/07/11/does-my-head-look-big-in-this/#comment-36996</link>
		<dc:creator>From Somalia, With Love - Book Review &#124; MuslimMatters.org</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 21 Jan 2009 21:40:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] while back I wrote a quick blurb on another book for Muslim teens (Does My Head Look Big In This? by Randa Abdel-Fattah), and mentioned how happy I was that at least there was something out there [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] while back I wrote a quick blurb on another book for Muslim teens (Does My Head Look Big In This? by Randa Abdel-Fattah), and mentioned how happy I was that at least there was something out there [...]</p>
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		<title>By: AnonyMouse</title>
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		<dc:creator>AnonyMouse</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Dec 2008 20:05:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I never did come back and finish off my review... well, for anyone still interested, I did borrow &quot;&lt;em&gt;Does My Head Look Big In This&lt;/em&gt;?&quot; from the library and read it from beginning to end.

I have to admit that I was disappointed - as I mentioned in the beginning, it&#039;s very much part of the &quot;chick-lit&quot; genre. Perhaps the author&#039;s intent was simply to have a character with whom Muslim teen girls could relate, without being preachy; but personally I thought that the novel could have encouraged stronger faith and strength of character than Amal does in the story. 

While the writing style was excellent, the plotline pretty well developed, and the characters quite believable, the major drawback of the book - for me - was that while most of the story revolves around Amal&#039;s decision to wear hijaab, the things that happen afterward (namely, her relationship with a boy) aren&#039;t as consistent with the theme of striving to be a better Muslimah. 

I&#039;d give the book a 5 out of 10, in that I would recommend this book more for non-Muslims than for Muslims - it&#039;d be a great way to introduce the struggles of Muslim teens to the wider non-Muslim audience, but as for Muslim girls themselves, I&#039;d look for a better alternative which more strongly encourages Islamic behaviour.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I never did come back and finish off my review&#8230; well, for anyone still interested, I did borrow &#8220;<em>Does My Head Look Big In This</em>?&#8221; from the library and read it from beginning to end.</p>
<p>I have to admit that I was disappointed &#8211; as I mentioned in the beginning, it&#8217;s very much part of the &#8220;chick-lit&#8221; genre. Perhaps the author&#8217;s intent was simply to have a character with whom Muslim teen girls could relate, without being preachy; but personally I thought that the novel could have encouraged stronger faith and strength of character than Amal does in the story. </p>
<p>While the writing style was excellent, the plotline pretty well developed, and the characters quite believable, the major drawback of the book &#8211; for me &#8211; was that while most of the story revolves around Amal&#8217;s decision to wear hijaab, the things that happen afterward (namely, her relationship with a boy) aren&#8217;t as consistent with the theme of striving to be a better Muslimah. </p>
<p>I&#8217;d give the book a 5 out of 10, in that I would recommend this book more for non-Muslims than for Muslims &#8211; it&#8217;d be a great way to introduce the struggles of Muslim teens to the wider non-Muslim audience, but as for Muslim girls themselves, I&#8217;d look for a better alternative which more strongly encourages Islamic behaviour.</p>
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		<title>By: Josette</title>
		<link>http://muslimmatters.org/2007/07/11/does-my-head-look-big-in-this/#comment-21585</link>
		<dc:creator>Josette</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 25 Jun 2008 04:20:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi there, I came here through Blog Search.  Well, I just finished reading this book and I thought it&#039;s a really good one.  I find it hilarious and am truly impressed with Amal&#039;s courage.  She&#039;s quite sarcastic at times but sometimes, she goes too far.

You can have a look at &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.booksloveme.com/2008/06/25/does-my-head-look-big-in-this-by-randa-abdel-fattah/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;my review&lt;/a&gt; if you like!  Thanks. =)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi there, I came here through Blog Search.  Well, I just finished reading this book and I thought it&#8217;s a really good one.  I find it hilarious and am truly impressed with Amal&#8217;s courage.  She&#8217;s quite sarcastic at times but sometimes, she goes too far.</p>
<p>You can have a look at <a href="http://www.booksloveme.com/2008/06/25/does-my-head-look-big-in-this-by-randa-abdel-fattah/" rel="nofollow">my review</a> if you like!  Thanks. =)</p>
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		<title>By: greekmuslimgirl</title>
		<link>http://muslimmatters.org/2007/07/11/does-my-head-look-big-in-this/#comment-21359</link>
		<dc:creator>greekmuslimgirl</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Jun 2008 16:45:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&quot;Oh, and if anyone knows of any other books like this - aside from Umm Zakiyya’s If I Should Speak trilogy - please do let me know! I’m keeping my eyes peeled for good Muslim fiction…)&quot;

Here are some definitely worth reading!

For adults:
Echoes Series (Echoes, Rebounding, Turbulence, Ripples, Silence) 

For young adults/adults:
Sophia&#039;s Journal: Time Warp 1857
Muslim Teens
The Size of a Mustard Seed (coming soon)

You can find these books at www.islamicbookstore.com and www.MuslimWritersPublishing.com.  They used to be at amazon.com but not sure if they are still there.

There&#039;s also From Somalia, With Love that just came out and can be found at the major chain stores like Chapters and I think Borders etc.
www.somalialove.com</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;Oh, and if anyone knows of any other books like this &#8211; aside from Umm Zakiyya’s If I Should Speak trilogy &#8211; please do let me know! I’m keeping my eyes peeled for good Muslim fiction…)&#8221;</p>
<p>Here are some definitely worth reading!</p>
<p>For adults:<br />
Echoes Series (Echoes, Rebounding, Turbulence, Ripples, Silence) </p>
<p>For young adults/adults:<br />
Sophia&#8217;s Journal: Time Warp 1857<br />
Muslim Teens<br />
The Size of a Mustard Seed (coming soon)</p>
<p>You can find these books at <a href="http://www.islamicbookstore.com" rel="nofollow">http://www.islamicbookstore.com</a> and <a href="http://www.MuslimWritersPublishing.com" rel="nofollow">http://www.MuslimWritersPublishing.com</a>.  They used to be at amazon.com but not sure if they are still there.</p>
<p>There&#8217;s also From Somalia, With Love that just came out and can be found at the major chain stores like Chapters and I think Borders etc.<br />
<a href="http://www.somalialove.com" rel="nofollow">http://www.somalialove.com</a></p>
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		<title>By: Na'ima B. Robert</title>
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		<dc:creator>Na'ima B. Robert</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 03 May 2008 18:47:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Asalaamu alaikum warahmatullah, all!

Was just browsing and stumbled across this forum - very interesting! Just wanted to let you know that my next book is a YA novel set in East London in the Somali community - an eye-opener for many insha Allah.
It is published by Frances Lincoln and due to launch in June in London insha Allah.

Please take a few minutes to visit the blog and leave your comments: http://fromsomalia-withlove.blogspot.com

JazakAllahu khairan for your support!
Wasalaam

Na&#039;ima B. Robert</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Asalaamu alaikum warahmatullah, all!</p>
<p>Was just browsing and stumbled across this forum &#8211; very interesting! Just wanted to let you know that my next book is a YA novel set in East London in the Somali community &#8211; an eye-opener for many insha Allah.<br />
It is published by Frances Lincoln and due to launch in June in London insha Allah.</p>
<p>Please take a few minutes to visit the blog and leave your comments: <a href="http://fromsomalia-withlove.blogspot.com" rel="nofollow">http://fromsomalia-withlove.blogspot.com</a></p>
<p>JazakAllahu khairan for your support!<br />
Wasalaam</p>
<p>Na&#8217;ima B. Robert</p>
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		<title>By: AnonyMouse</title>
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		<dc:creator>AnonyMouse</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 03 Jan 2008 20:02:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Jazaakillaahi khairan, sis Umm Junayd! :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Jazaakillaahi khairan, sis Umm Junayd! :)</p>
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		<title>By: Umm Junayd</title>
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		<dc:creator>Umm Junayd</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 03 Jan 2008 17:35:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Assalaamu &#039;alaikum.

Okay, this is an &#039;old&#039; post, but for some good quality fiction, check out those found here:

http://www.muslimwriterspublishing.com

... especially the &#039;Echoes&#039; series (Echoes, Rebounding &amp; Turbulence so far... two more left to be published inshaa`Allaah).</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Assalaamu &#8216;alaikum.</p>
<p>Okay, this is an &#8216;old&#8217; post, but for some good quality fiction, check out those found here:</p>
<p><a href="http://www.muslimwriterspublishing.com" rel="nofollow">http://www.muslimwriterspublishing.com</a></p>
<p>&#8230; especially the &#8216;Echoes&#8217; series (Echoes, Rebounding &amp; Turbulence so far&#8230; two more left to be published inshaa`Allaah).</p>
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